I have a DD who is nearly 23 months old, she's been quite advanced so far, she was walking at 11 months, asking questions saying small sentences from 16-17 months, she's almost potty trained etc.
I'm not trying to sound "smug" as none of it has been down to me, she just seems to pick things up quickly. Anyway my DM begrudgingly has her maybe once a week or once a fortnight whilst I'm at work.
She dropped her off on Saturday and I asked if DD had behaved herself etc etc. DM said yes she's been very good but there was just one thing we noticed . . . Right mum, go on. "Well, she doesn't seem to like using cutlery to eat her dinner anymore which is funny because she was doing so well with it a couple of months ago, she was just digging into her dinner with her hands. Do you give her cutlery to use at dinner time?" Oh FFS mum!! She's not even two! She knows how to use a fork and a spoon together and kind of knows how to use a knife and fork but she gets impatient sometimes and just digs in with her hands.
I did baby led weaning when she first started solids as I was told that babies learn quicker by feeling the texture of their food but she soon progressed on to spoon feeding herself. Aside from this DD is a fantastic eater, she loves fruit and vegetables and I want her to continue like this for as long as possible. I snapped back at my mum that I'd rather ensure that she was eating a healthy diet than turn every meal into a battleground by trying to force her to use cutlery and in turn make her reluctant to eat healthy meals. I also showed her the knife, fork and millions of spoons I had drying on the draining board for her.
I just feel as though she's being really pushy with her, I've always let her develop at her own pace, let her do her own thing and she's a confident, happy child. I think that because she's been a little bit advanced my mum is trying to push her and push her instead of nurturing the skills and learning that she already has IYSWIM. I can only think that if she carries on pushing and pushing its going to lead to feelings of inadequacy for DD as she gets older. It's not the first time she's made criticisms and I just wish she'd keep them to herself!
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Stinkerbellabumsmella · 23/06/2015 10:32
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