Name changed as I'm feeling so ashamed
I've two dc, youngest is 6 months. Definitely had no plans for any more dc.
I got pregnant after both a condom and morning after pill failure.
3 dc would really hammer us financially, with no spare money at all. It'd be like living on maternity pay month after month. I'd have 3 in childcare at once as the oldest has just turned 2.
Everything is pointing towards the termination route but I just don't know how I'm going to feel afterwards and if I'll be burdened with guilt.
I've no family support at all as both sets of parents live 2 hours away.
I hate being pregnant.
I just never thought I'd be mid thirties and facing this situation.
I rang the BPA today and could hardly speak and get the info as I was so upset. It's the thought that I'm ending a life or contemplating it, that's upsetting.
Making it worse is that I have to travel from Ireland with both my children to have the procedure as I would be totally shunned by family if I talked about what I'm doing. Dh will be with me, but it's going to be a nightmare day.
Don't know what I'm asking really but am I right to be feeling so ashamed?
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HowTheHellWasISoStupid · 12/06/2015 19:54
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