Feeling a bit pants and could do with some words of wisdom.
My husband is a phenomenal daddy to my two boys 3.5 and 18 mo. Is around a lot and plays with them loads, they totally adore him and I love him for being such an awesome daddy. He also helps around the house and is a genuine stand out dad when compared to anyone else I know.
However, I'm coming to the conclusion that he's not really a very good husband to me. I am constantly made to feel inferior to him in terms of parenting and he's always making me generally not feel good enough.
I'm feeling particularly emotional at the moment due to problems with my own dad coming to a head. But he's just being a bit crap about it all.
I've just returned from a four day work trip (which was admittedly a lot of fun!). I'd been looking forward to coming back and had sort of hoped for a little bit of "we've missed you" but instead he just said the house was tidier and the boys were happier without me. Half joking, of course, but when I said that it made me feel shit and maybe I shouldn't have bothered coming home he just said "as long as I get custody if the boys I don't care. We'd be fine without you".
He just makes me feel not good enough and an inferior parent. Couple that with us never doing anything together, him training for rugby 2x a week then playing on sat pm and I'm starting to feel a little bit shitty.
Is this just 'how it is'?
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LittleMilla · 07/02/2015 20:40
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