I'm pregnant with dc2. I have a 5yo ds conceived through ivf when married to exh. We had two frozen embryos from that ivf cycle, so post divorce exh and I agreed i could use them, I'd have residence of any resulting child and exh would have his weekly time with them same as ds.
So now I'm pregnant and exh has said he's going to tell his parents it was a natural miracle pregnancy after we started seeing each other a few months ago needless to say we haven't done anything of the sort, though we are happy and amicable in our relationship.
Aibu to be annoyed by this lie? Baby wasn't an accident, baby was planned and exmil is bound to say about it when she visits baby. Exh says his parents will brand us 'stupid' and weird for doing this, but why should I have to lie about our baby? Exh is 40, you'd think he would be able to speak the truth and not be ashamed of his child. Fwiw he won't be paying any child maintenance for this baby so I will be working to support both children, though he does pay towards dc1. Im not complaining about that, just saying as it's not like I've gone to him for money.
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not to go along with exh lie?
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Chatatouillez · 08/01/2015 18:30
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