Just wondering what the stance is on gifts that you don't like. Is it better to pretend or is honesty best?
Every year for as long as I can remember I bought dsis an Xmas gift and she's told me that she doesn't like it. I always ask her what she would like or to make a list and ill choose from it. She won't do this as she says that it should be a surprise. She doesn't like receiving money or vouchers as she think that they're thoughtless and lack effort. I try to buy fairly neutral things such as pyjamas in a style and material I've seen her wear. But she'll say that she doesn't like the pattern. Nice branded gift sets, she likes trying different ones but she'll say she didn't like the smell. Tickets to go somewhere let's say cinema, she'll say there's nothing on she wants to see. It's got to a point where I feel quite hurt, but perhaps it's better to be honest.
I get wine every year and I don't drink it, neither does dp, but we don't say anything.
A very elderly relative gave me something recently that was nice, but needed to be refrigerated but he hasn't told me. I decided it was best to just not say anything due to the persons age and not wanting them to know that their thoughtful gift had gone to waste. Dsis was adamant that I should tell relative.
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To lie and pretend that I love gifts?
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Pyjamaramadrama · 05/01/2015 13:38
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