Joined again recently after a break away from MN.
I have a dear friend who lives just down the way from me. She came over to mine last week and brought her DD's (1 and 4) with her to play with my DS (also 4). The topic of christmas came up and she said she was buying her DD1 an iPad. I was surprised since her daughter has already dropped both of her parents' iPads and smashed the screens beyond repair. I said she should definitely put a protective screen/case on this one, and we were googling some. She said they were too expensive, since her DH doesn't know she's even bought the iPad in the first place, and he had been against it in the first place.
She bought it on a credit card she kept from years ago when she was working, took delivery of it and has wrapped it up. She won't tell her DH and he won't know until Christmas morning.
I am worried for her, because they have been having problems, and she's been saying he's been nagging her about money and how she spends it.
This morning she texted me and said she was thinking about buying a second iPad for her DD2, in case she got jealous. I haven't texted back, because I don't want to look as if I agree with her concealing this level of purchase from her DH.
What's the most reasonable thing to do?
- ignore totally
- give her my opinion and advise her to return the iPad before it causes a row
- go along with it and pretend to agree with her
I value her friendship and I want to be the best friend I can be to her.