Mil has just text to say she has booked flights to come and stay with us next weekend. The problem being that she didn't ask if this was suitable. Now we've said it isn't she's piling on the guilt trip.
The problem is we have an engagement party for dps close friends on the Friday. She arrives on Saturday morning and will need picked up from the airport (an hour away). I don't drive and Dp will be slightly worse for wear so can't drive. I'm working Saturday all day and Sunday all day. Dp is working Saturday and Sunday night so it will be a quick change over to be in for ds. We're both working all day Monday, Ds is in nursery.
That weekend is pretty much all go, which is unusual as I'm usually off. We're both going to be absolutely shattered and the last thing I want to worry about is making dinner and entertaining mil. I'll just want to come in, quick dinner, pjs on and put ds to bed and do some work on my essay. If mil had asked we would have said it wasn't really suitable for us and arranged a different weekend. We live in a tiny 2 bed so would have to give up our bed for her too, a total nightmare when I need to get ready early in the morning.
Am I unreasonable to put my foot down and say no? We've told her it isn't really good for us but she is insisting.
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BerryNaughtyBoy · 13/11/2014 22:46
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