I've just heard through mutual friends that my ex boyfriends father has passed away suddenly.
Ex and I were together for 5 years and lived together so I knew his parents quite well and they were always very kind to me and DD. I split with ex 6 years ago and we're not really in contact although bump in to each other now and again. We're on polite terms but his new wife utterly hates me - she totally blanks me and ignores my existence even if we're in the same room.
Would I be unreasonable to send ex's mother a card just to say how fondly we'll remember her husband? I don't want to antagonise ex's wife in any way (I'm hoping one day she'll manage cold politeness and make it easier at events we both attend) and I'm concerned she might view it as a reminder of my part in ex's history. I really would like to just quietly send a card though since his parents meant a lot to me once and I know DD would like to share that sentiment too.
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Mandatorymongoose · 17/06/2014 00:06
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