She's having work done in her house and been staying in a hotel. She's not sure if the local authority will be paying for it and the last day to stay there is tomorrow. She stayed a night with me last week and has some of her belongings stored here.
She asked by text, and didn't enquire how I am or how my day was, and why not phone when you want something?
She's in a seriously bad DV r/s and always asks my advice and I try to help out and not judge. I've helped her out loads. Giving her maternity clothes, baby clothes etc.
I really feel the friendship in one sided and when she texted me I've not heard from her all weekend, when she said she'd ring/text.
I don't want her staying here and have ignored her text so far. I only hear from her when she wants something. I've arranged for a charity I was working at to help her and her family out, written letters for her etc. She just seems to take, take, and it feels really one sided.
WWYD? I'm so pissed off with her. She's in a really bad r/s with a guy she'll be having a baby for. Last time I saw her she said he called her a C**t and spat in her face. She's 8 months pregnant. He's promised to buy her stuff for the baby and only bought a few baby gros and a blanket. She has literally nothing.
Please don't get me wrong, I feel for her I really do, but its all take and not give and I've had enough.
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Confused40 · 20/08/2013 21:56
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