(Now, I certainly don't agree with allowing the public purse to pick up the tab for your care bill as you chose to spend all of your money on buying your little darling a house- but I think that thread raised some really interesting points.)
(And I know we all hate threads about threads but IDC
It seemed like an awful lot of people seemed to believe that helping your children out with deposits and even purchasing property was ultimately a terrible thing. There was one comparison to the North Korean dictatorship when it came to leaving behind some dolla dolla bill for DC and a recurring theme of 'teaching your children to stand on their own feet' is more valuable that any inheritance you give them.
Obviously I agree self-sufficiency should be instilled in all children, and from studying at a pretty elite university with public school types who simply didn't understand that I needed to work all hours to get through my BA (and my MA!), I have a disdain for people who have never had to work for anything.
But does giving your kids a deposit for a house or a wedding or being so generous to buy them a house cancel that hard-working trait out if it existed in the first place? I understand completely that not everyone is in a financial position to help their DC in such a huge way, but surely it's understandable if some people do?
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to ask why helping your children financially is looked upon so disdainfully? (thread about THAT inheritance thread)
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