This thread will come across very bad but its a long story. I have 3 dds the two youngest are pretty normal kids, reasonabley well behaved and loving. Then they is my oldest, who is now 13 but she has always been so difficult, so strong willed, never doing what she is told to do, always testing the boundaries . In the past i tried everything bold step, magic 123 etc i even got her tested for ADD and brought her to a Homeopath but no results.
She is good at school no problems with her teachers and one of the most popular girls in her class, loved by her friends. At home she is just a little,,w..gon I am always fighting with her, she never lets up, fighting with her sisters, also mean spirited. I find her very selfish and mean to them and us. Of course now i am fed up asking her to improve, i am pulling back any affection for her but im sire she notices but still makes no effort.
I know and i dont blame anyone who feels i am the adult here and should improve, but its so hard to have to listen to all the shouting and tantrums, i resent her for all the trouble she causes in the family. It is much calmer and happier when she is not here . I have now given up of expecting any improvements.
I know you cannot change someone but something has to improve, or i dont want to be responisble for ruining her teenage years.
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I feel like i dislike my dd, help
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sprout44 · 18/10/2012 14:13
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