Background for this is that I have a very spirited three year old DS who is going through a high tantrum period - often involving resistance to walking - and who is waking up at around 5.40am so is tired by 9am. Also have a one year old. Second day in new job today.
Decided to take children for a walk before work. Considered walking on foot with both of them as 1 year old has just started to walk. Then reflected that DS was at a tipping point mood-wise so put them in the double buggy.
At front door, normally lovely elderly neighbour stopped to chat. DS noticed a spider. I picked him out of buggy and put him down in the garden to look at it more closely. Neighbour said 'His legs are going to atrophy in a moment'. This is the second such 'snide' comment of this nature.
I dissolved into tears in front of the neighbour.
Hideous weekend of tantrums, so much so that I started to either wonder if DS has some sort of ASD - or if I should give up work (my dream job). I would love DS to walk/run more. He will when he is in the mood. However, it took me 40 minutes to get him to walk a 2 minute stretch the other day and I had to get a stranger to carry DD while I gave him a fireman's lift for the last stretch as it was pouring with rain.
Any advice/sympathy welcome. Not quite sure why I've posted in AIBU as I'm not feeling particularly resilient....!
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smeraldina · 02/10/2012 10:29
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