Dont know if IABU to be annoyed.
DH plays wow 3 nights a week with his brother and is often online from 7pm til 11 pm. So I usually entertain myself. I write, read, play bingo on a Sunday with my MIL (great relationship) on these evenings.
I don't generally mind too much as I'm pregnant ATM and tend to get really tired early anyway. Sometimes I feel down that he spends nearly half the week playing these games.
Anyway, I deal. My annoyance is this. DH and me spend thursday nights curled up on sofa usually and have nice night in. This week he announces that Thursdays are now 'bowling night' with his bro and workmate. I was pretty upset. So out of 7 days I get 2 evenings with DH, his bro gets 4 and one day is spent with family.
I'm just so frustrated.
The worst thing is tonight they went out at 8 bowling so I had to stay in. I planned my night around Food Network and Gordon's kitchen nightmares and got my jammies and teddy out... Only for DH and BIL to walk in after an hour, demand I go upstairs so they can play FIFA!!!
There is not even a tv upstairs due to decorating!!!
I just feel DH does what he likes and doesn't think about things like this at all, as long as he is happy and I don't make a fuss! I can't believe it I'm so upset!
BIL has his own house with a PS3 and FIFA too, why is he always here?! He moved in for a while when I was 10 weeks preg but I pissed and moaned to DH and MIL and he moved out again. Thank god for my MIL
I just feel so fed up and any discussions are like talking to a brick wall 'he is my brother', 'he just needs to get out' etc. I feel totally second best to DH brother.
Have told DH this is not goig to be a weekly thing and he needs to think about me and out family (expecting first Dc) a bit more as it is upsetting me.
I do go out and try to do my own thing etc, but I feel very down today.
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AIBU?
Really really hacked off with DH
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Kayano · 20/10/2011 22:06
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