I want to judge the responses really.
DPs family consider themselves 'close'. Older SIL goes to her parents house every day with her young son and spends all day there (I think thats so she doesnt have to cook dinner ), DP didnt move out until he was 34, and younger SIL and BIL still live at home. They are 27 and 20. We are expected to stay for dinner twice a week at least and DP goes round maybe once more than I do. We will be in the dog house if we cant make it.
There are only me and my brother and our very young cousins. We are what I would consider close, as our Dad died when we were very young, and our Mum couldnt cope and had trouble with alcohol addiction. Because of that my brother and I have a feeling of protection for each other and he'll often just facebook or text me, Love you Sis x My mum has been in AA for 5 years and is totally dry now and only expects to see us once a week. I like this arrangement.
Despite the differences, DP's family dont actually seem to get along at all. They spend alot of time bitching about each other and their cousins. In the same vein, because we dont see each other every day, they think our family is disjointed.
How does it work in your familys? Are you at either end of the scale or somewhere inbetween?
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knittynoodle · 02/09/2011 11:00
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