My next door neighbour has a toddler daughter the same age as DD. We attended the same mother and baby groups for the first 6 months and I thought we got on OK - I've always made every effort to be friendly and pleasant.
In recent months, however she and some other mums from the groups all arrange to do things together and exclude me. I wasn't invited to any 1st bithday parties. My neighbour knows that I have no family living locally and no friends with young children, so it can get very, very lonely for me (I have a DP). Despite this she still invites other mums round to her house so I can hear them chatting and their children playing in the garden, while I'm at home alone, uninvited .
I don't expect her to be my best friend by virtue of her living next door, of course not. But for the benefit of our DDs I though we could at least make some effort.
I'm a grown woman in my 30s and should probably know better, but I'll admit I'm REALLY hurt all this. I just don't understand where I've gone wrong that people would knowingly want to hurt me so much.
AIBU to be so upset by this?
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Genuine AIBU: Why doesn't my neighbour want to know me & DD?
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VermiciousKid · 24/08/2011 15:00
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