Married for 5 years, 2 DCs.
Been to relate. Both had individual counselling.
DH has no sex drive - never has. If I initiate he will reciprocate. After the first couple of years of this game, I have stopped initiating because part of the wole sex thing for me is the being wanted part.
Hundreds of rows later, no change after counselling, I have told him that he needs to discuss this with the GP (as counselling hasn't worked) as though I am prepared to put up with this for now, I cannot guarantee that it will not be a deal breaker in the future.
He has been this way in all of his previous relationships which have all ended due to irreconcilable differences over sex.
I love him, he is a brilliant dad and good husband but I want a great husband.
Have I done wrong here? Feeling the guilt.
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HooHa · 24/08/2011 13:03
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