I'm happily married with 2 young children (7 and 5). DH is a complete workaholic, works shift hours so during holiday times, apart from our family holiday, it's just me and the DC. I'm lucky - have great parents and IL's, and a really nice network of friends. One of my closest friends happens to be male. We met through our children in school (his are both a year younger than mine but get on brilliantly) and because we are both teachers, we're always off at the same time. His wife is lovely, we all get on when we meet together as a large group, DH and him are friends (not close) but are relaxed in one another's company.
Another Mum at the school where DC attend is a bit of a gossip. She's ok but knows everyone's business, and her child attends some of the clubs that mine go to. It's not the first time she's seen me and my male friend together i.e. coming out of the pool together WITH children, or him giving me a life WITH children to the park etc etc. She questioned it last year and I just shrugged it off. We all had a bbq last night and he told me that this Mum has told other Mums that we spend a lot of time together and that she was sure there is something going on. It now seems that a rumour is circulating that we're having an affair.
I'm pissed off about this and am not sure how to tackle it. I feel like knocking on her door and reminding her how damaging her gossip can be and for her to back off and mind her own. That said, will it look like I'm guilty? There is absolutely no shred of truth in this at all but I'm furious that the very suggestion of it will plant a seed of doubt. Neither of our partners are in the 'loop' of school and we've not told them of this rumour.
I'm so . How should I proceed with this?
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BaggyAndWrinkled · 07/08/2011 14:12
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