Just come back from holiday with my cousin and her 4 kids.
Kids are aged 9, 11, 13 and 15. My son is aged 13. 3 of her kids had never been on a plane before.
My idea of a holiday is to get out and about and see and do things only coming back to the apartment in the evenings to chill out and eat. I don't mind having a quiet day by the pool and a day out can consist of no more than mucking about on the beach, but her kids refused to do pretty much anything.
I honestly thought going away with other kids would mean my DS had some playmates and that cousin and I could relax secure in the knowledge that the kids were off enjoying themselves and having fun. I also thought that her kids would be really excited about going on a plane for the first time and show some sort of enthusiasm in the car and in the airport.
We went out for 2 days out of 7. One day on a coach trip (which the eldest wrote a postcard home saying it was "the most boring day of my entire life") and we also went to a water park. Kids moaned all day on coach trip and didn't try to take any positive from it at all. At the water park it was only my son and her son who went in, even though we paid for them and then they said they wanted to go in. The others sat in the cafe and moaned.
DS was frustrated at the lack of enthusiasm for anything but I couldn't get him to do anything with me because he wanted to be with the kids that I had purposely gone on holiday with to entertain each other! So DS did far less than we would have normally done on holiday.
Cousins eldest girl sat for days in the apartment room with the curtains shut and the light on reading books. (We were abroad in a warm and sunny country). I couldn't even persuade her to look round the shops.
The middle two just wanted to sit in front of a screen. They would prefer to watch childrens tv in a foreign language than come to the beach or would sit on consoles all day.
The youngest, didn't stop whingeing and it really grated on me by the end of the holiday.
So, I have learnt my lesson and won't be doing that again, but I suppose I wonder if I am a bit odd and they are the normal ones? Certainly my cousin didn't seem at all surprised at their behaviour at all.
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to feel that her kids are are a bit odd?
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yellowhandbag · 27/07/2011 08:25
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