to be furious

[fwa]

I had to go to a work event today (I usually don't work Fridays) and so I got my sister to babysit. I came home half an hour ago to find her absolutely hammered and my brother who she clearly brought with passed out on the floor. They've drunk 3 bottles of wine and some amaretto by the looks of it. DD has just been playing with herself in her room whilst they've been getting sloshed and goodness know what would have happened had dd had a problem.

[FuzzpigFourFiveSix]

Fuck no YANBU!

[JarethTheGoblinKing]

Really?

What did you do?

[PhishFoodAddiction]

Bloody hell, no YADDNBU.

[Andrewofgg]

Are these people adults, or at least of adult years?

[CurrySpice]

Oh my lord!!

No, YANBU!

[thefirstmrsrochester]

YANBU!
Thats horrendous!

[fwa]

He's 18 and she's 22

[Roo83]

That is horrendous! I would be absolutely livid and never be able to trust them again. Hope your dd's ok

[sleepindogz]

what ages are they all

[crazynanna]

Well out of order!

[NoobytheWaspSlayer]

Good lord that is horrendous. I would be furious.

Have you kicked them out/bollocked them?

[Andrewofgg]

No excuse for either of them, but especially for her because she was the one you asked. You won't do that again. I can only sympathise. Families, who'd have 'em?

[fwa]

I "revived" my brother and kicked them out, they weren't in any state to have a proper talk about it.

[fered]

I think you did well, I'd have had difficult controlling my rage. Their behaviour is beyond terrible and when they've sobered up I wouldn't be shy about telling them either

[SetTheRayToJerry]

wtf?! how old is DD? And what do they have to say for themselves?!

[TheBolter]

How old is your dd?

[fwa]

dd is 7

[SetTheRayToJerry]

7?!

Holy shit. So sorry fwa.

[fwa]

From what she's told me they were alright in the morning andn they did give her lunch at 12 and then the drinking started

[ChristinedePizan]

God I don't know what I'd do if I were you. What are you going to do?

I suspect this is going to be a universal YANBU.

[fwa]

ChristinedePizan- I've thrown them out and I'll decide what to say/do to them tonight

[IvyAndGold]

fwa YADNBU!! this is just shocking, who in their right mind thinks that would be ok?!

I hate hearing about young people doing this when they have DC in their charge. I have enough trouble with other people's 'young mum syndrome', without a pair of jokers like these fueling it

[TherapeuticVino]

Much as I would completely and utterly bollock both of them, I think you should really lay it on your sister - your brother was just an idiot "friend" but SHE accepted the responsibility of babysitting..... I am so sorry I would just be going mental. At least your little girl is ok - probably a nice time to discuss expectations and why you're furious with them and proud of her for being sensible this afternoon.....

YA obviously NBA

[Mush123]

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