Just to give you a little background..
DH and I have 1 DS who will turn 5 next week (eek)
He comes from a happy and stable family background. Has a solid friendship circle and does extremely well at school, although one of the youngest he is one of the brightest (teachers words not mine)
Very chatty, happy and confident. Very rarely poorly ( approx 3 days off in 5 years, I went back to work when he was 14 weeks)
Compliments always received from dentist, teachers, parents and strangers on how happy, friendly, polite and healthy he is.
He sleeps well, has great skin, no problems with toilet area, drinks plently and is generally a bright little boy
I recieved a letter on Sat from the health visitor following tests they did back in Feb. The letter stated that my DS falls into the severly overweight category.
It also stated that children that are overweight are more open to illness ( again DS is never ill) and more open to lack of confedence ( they've obiviously never met DS!!)
The letter went through all his stats etc then in a separate booklet there was areas to improve his lifgestyle:
- Cut down on fizzt drinks: DS has NEVER (yes never) drank a fizzy drink in his life. He will only drink water or robinsons squash
- 60 minutes activity a day: DS would be out from 8 am until bedtime if he was given the chance. He is active at school. comes home at 3pm, will be out the front by 315, playing footy, catch or riding bike. He will come in to eat tea and do homework before going back out again. He also plays footy and attends swimming once a week...how can this not be enough???
- Eat more fruit and veg: I often receive compliments on how much fruit and veg my DS will eat a day, he gets no junk food in packed lunch but can eat a little bit of junk after school ( which DH and I are willing to address)
I could go on and on about the ''advice'' given in this booklet.
DH and I had a very long talk about this letter and both agreed that there are things we could change for the better... less junk after school and smaller portions etc but I still feel incredibly hurt that a letter can be sent out by just results on a page.
I still feel pissed off at DS being put in this group purely on figures from a HV, all the males on both sides of family are tall and broad ( not fat but stocky) and I thought DS was just taking after them.
I feel embarrassed that he is classed as severly overweight
I feel pissed off by the wording of the letter
I feel gutted, I don't want DS to be on a diet but also don't ever want him to be a victim of bullying later in life either
I feel wound up that they have almost judged DS on figures rather than it being on a personal level.
very mixed bag of emotions on this one...any advice would be greatly appreciated