DH has worked for the same employers for over 15 years, but been with the company 20, his boss took over 15 years ago.
he has been manager for 15 years.
lately, his boss has been nit picking at every single thing, second guessing his decisions, pulling him down in front of colleagues, belittling him, phoning him at home out of work hours, even phoning him about work the day of his fathers funeral a few weeks ago....) that sort of thing. The company is struggling, and i am wondering if they are trying to get DH to leave to save his wage. Last time this happened DH asked boss if he was after his notice to which he replied that was for him to decide....
last week an employee asked for a weeks holiday - dh said no problem - this employee has just had a cancer scare, DH covers holiday leave which means he has this week had to go in and cover 2 night shifts, which is what he has done for the last 20 years - nothing different to normal. They pulled him apart about this decision last week - saying it was too short notice to allow the employee the holiday leave - DH said it wasnt as it wouldnt cause any problems at all - and it hasnt. No one else was off and the employee is entitled to his annual leave - so dh let him have it. no problems.
today, his boss stooped to a new low. He called him at home, this morning (dh had been working all night and is in again tonight) and i could hear him yelling and shouting at DH. DH stayed calm and asked what the problem was. he got no answer, just more incoherent ranting, again he asked what the problem was - boss shouts that he should be at work, NOW. DH tried to explain that he was covering nights - he got shouted down again (i could hear all this as his boss was shouting so loudly) it angered me so much i started shouting, asking what the hell he thought he was doing phoning DH at home? (i know his boss really well as i used to work there - he is a bully boy, and i left after a couple of years of it - i threw something at him and walked after he did the same thing to me in front of a shop full of people)
He had absolutely no need to do this. DH said he couldnt carry on like this, his boss raged some more and put the phone down. DH has absolutely no idea what any of it was about. I suspect something had maybe gone wrong and he was looking for his whipping boy - ie - my dh
I am still so annoyed about it. I am sure that they are doing their best to get DH to walk or give notice. He is close to going. I advised getting signed off but he wont do that - work ethic and all that - he has only taken 4 days sick in 20 years.
If they drive him out im thinking this is constructive dismal? He is doing nothing differently to the last 15 years that they have happily let him run his dept. He has no pay rise in the last 5 years. He works like a trooper, does exactly what is required and nothing has altered except their attitude toward him.
I want to phone the fuckwit up. preferably in the dead of night when he is sleeping and see how he likes being woken by a ranty fucker...i am being unreasonable no?
i know it wont help but omg i would feel better...
AIBU?
to phone DHs boss and tell him to fuck right off
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