I went back into teaching in January doing two days a week combined with another job working one morning and one afternoon. Dd was then at nursery which was at the school I worked so I found it easy. But this september I went up to three days teacbing and dd started reception and I think that if I was observing my life as a netral observer I would was neglecting her and putting my whole family at risk.
THe work load at school is quite high as we are going through some difficulties, I try to compensate for that by getting up at 5 and starting some work about half past at home so I can then get dd ready for school, I take her to breakfast club at eight and then go into school. Dd is at after school club until half five so I work until then, pick her up and the plan was that I would do tea and bedtime so I would have the evenings with dd before doing a few hours in the evening. I also try an do a few hours of work on my days off while dd is at school so that I am not having to do too much in the evenings so I have time with dd and dp and can have my weekends free. But I am so tired I am literally coming home and collapsing before resurfacing at about ten to do some work. Weekends which were supposed to be a quality time consist of me either asleep upstairs or lying on the sofa struggling to move. The house is a tip, I can't find anything, clothes are being pulled out of the ironing basket and ironed as we need them and so called quality time is non existant. THis week I had to send dd to my mums for a few days as firstly I had to be in school for so long and had meetings and parents evenings and secondly I was too tired to look after her. Dp has said he has had enough of having to do everything and me being grumpy and tired.
This afternoon I arranged to leave my INSET early as I thought dd had a family maths club, I turned up to find I had the wrong day - it was yesterday. I had the wrong time for dd finishing school and dd was in tears as I could not make her assembly - although in my defence I did make the assmebly two weeks ago and volunteered to help out. I missed the PTA meeting the other week as I fell asleep and messed up her after school club fees as I am so tired I can't think straight.
I feel such a selfish bitch that I am putting my desire to work before my whole family but I do love my job and have been at home with dd for nearly five years.
Will everyting fall into place eventually? I am hoping for a positive answer.
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How long does it take to get into the swing of being a working mum with a kid at school?
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twinsetandpearls · 20/10/2006 21:34
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