For any LGBT+ people out there, how do you feel about celebrities such as Jameela Jamil or Demi Lovato claiming to be “queer” or non-binary?
Jameela Jamil is in a long-term relationship with a man.
Demi Lovato, as far as I know, is also in a heterosexual relationship and presents in a feminine way. She previously used they/them pronouns because she wasn’t sure which toilet to use - she didn’t feel male or female, you see - but now she feels more “feminine” again, she has gone back to she/her.
Please can someone explain: in what way are these women queer???
Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?
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GenuinelyCurious123 · 04/08/2022 19:52
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DeliaTookATumble · 04/08/2022 20:51
I’m a bisexual who grew up in the 70s and I’m delighted that our work, our fighting, has given younger people the freedom to explore their sexuality fully and be open about it. This is what I wanted. But we’re all different.
Good on them.
GenuinelyCurious123 · 04/08/2022 19:52
For any LGBT+ people out there, how do you feel about celebrities such as Jameela Jamil or Demi Lovato claiming to be “queer” or non-binary?
Jameela Jamil is in a long-term relationship with a man.
Demi Lovato, as far as I know, is also in a heterosexual relationship and presents in a feminine way. She previously used they/them pronouns because she wasn’t sure which toilet to use - she didn’t feel male or female, you see - but now she feels more “feminine” again, she has gone back to she/her.
Please can someone explain: in what way are these women queer???
Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?
ArcheryAnnie · 04/08/2022 21:57
The Tate now uses the word "queer" in a celebratory way, so does the v&A, the Museum of London, and many other organisations. It's possible that somebody under 30 has only ever experienced the word "queer" as an abusive slur accompanied by threats, as many of us once did, but it's far more likely that they will also have grown up experiencing it also as, or only as, a neutral or positive word.
SarahAndQuack · 04/08/2022 21:42
@ArcheryAnnie, I personally find the term 'queer' pretty upsetting, but I think you are wildly optimistic if you think it's no longer familiar as a slur to under 30s. Sadly, I'm absolutely sure it's still being used in just the same sense it always was.
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SarahAndQuack · 04/08/2022 21:42
@ArcheryAnnie, I personally find the term 'queer' pretty upsetting, but I think you are wildly optimistic if you think it's no longer familiar as a slur to under 30s. Sadly, I'm absolutely sure it's still being used in just the same sense it always was.
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