For any LGBT+ people out there, how do you feel about celebrities such as Jameela Jamil or Demi Lovato claiming to be “queer” or non-binary?
Jameela Jamil is in a long-term relationship with a man.
Demi Lovato, as far as I know, is also in a heterosexual relationship and presents in a feminine way. She previously used they/them pronouns because she wasn’t sure which toilet to use - she didn’t feel male or female, you see - but now she feels more “feminine” again, she has gone back to she/her.
Please can someone explain: in what way are these women queer???
Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?
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GenuinelyCurious123 · 04/08/2022 19:52
OldCrone · 06/08/2022 10:11
Is the world really becoming less conformist if everyone who doesn't conform to a stereotype needs to label themselves as non-conformist?
BiscuitLover3678 · 05/08/2022 10:22
I don’t know exactly how or why they call themselves that and what it means. We only see the polished look they show to the media which is very feminine. Maybe in their real lives they are completely different.
I think we need to stop worrying about others and be thankful that the world is becoming less conformist full stop.
Elsiebear90 · 05/08/2022 09:03
But how are Jamila Jamil and Demi Levato “non-binary”? They have always presented in a very stereotypically feminine way. People can just declare themselves “non-binary” which in reality means nothing, say they’re oppressed and start pontificated about issues which really don’t affect them and that’s the issue.
That’s not to say people who don’t fit into gender stereotypes (e.g. men who wear dresses and makeup etc) don’t face discrimination and issues, but I’m failing to see how Demi Levato and Jamila Jamil face any issues related to being LGBT+ when they are “gender conforming” and have exclusively (public) heterosexual relationships.
Hearach15 · 05/08/2022 00:01
"Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?"
No, non-binary people are very much part of the LGBTQ community.
GenuinelyCurious123 · 04/08/2022 19:52
For any LGBT+ people out there, how do you feel about celebrities such as Jameela Jamil or Demi Lovato claiming to be “queer” or non-binary?
Jameela Jamil is in a long-term relationship with a man.
Demi Lovato, as far as I know, is also in a heterosexual relationship and presents in a feminine way. She previously used they/them pronouns because she wasn’t sure which toilet to use - she didn’t feel male or female, you see - but now she feels more “feminine” again, she has gone back to she/her.
Please can someone explain: in what way are these women queer???
Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?
rumred · 04/08/2022 20:47
It's wearing. As an lesbian growing up in the 60s and 70s - so grim I can't describe it-its fucking irritating that people claim labels like clothing items. Fucking pointless but also why do I give any fucks. It's the patriarchy. It's fucked
BiscuitLover3678 · 05/08/2022 10:22
I don’t know exactly how or why they call themselves that and what it means. We only see the polished look they show to the media which is very feminine. Maybe in their real lives they are completely different.
I think we need to stop worrying about others and be thankful that the world is becoming less conformist full stop.
Elsiebear90 · 05/08/2022 09:03
But how are Jamila Jamil and Demi Levato “non-binary”? They have always presented in a very stereotypically feminine way. People can just declare themselves “non-binary” which in reality means nothing, say they’re oppressed and start pontificated about issues which really don’t affect them and that’s the issue.
That’s not to say people who don’t fit into gender stereotypes (e.g. men who wear dresses and makeup etc) don’t face discrimination and issues, but I’m failing to see how Demi Levato and Jamila Jamil face any issues related to being LGBT+ when they are “gender conforming” and have exclusively (public) heterosexual relationships.
Hearach15 · 05/08/2022 00:01
"Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?"
No, non-binary people are very much part of the LGBTQ community.
GenuinelyCurious123 · 04/08/2022 19:52
For any LGBT+ people out there, how do you feel about celebrities such as Jameela Jamil or Demi Lovato claiming to be “queer” or non-binary?
Jameela Jamil is in a long-term relationship with a man.
Demi Lovato, as far as I know, is also in a heterosexual relationship and presents in a feminine way. She previously used they/them pronouns because she wasn’t sure which toilet to use - she didn’t feel male or female, you see - but now she feels more “feminine” again, she has gone back to she/her.
Please can someone explain: in what way are these women queer???
Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?
ChagSameachDoreen · 05/08/2022 07:25
"Queer", like "non-binary", is a very useful little word as it allows you to claim oppression without having to do anything.
WarriorN · 06/08/2022 08:12
When I've heard how much abuse bisexual people get, surely it's biphobic to call yourself queer rather than bisexual.
Queer doesn't seem to mean anything
It's people wanting to be part of a 'special club.' But they're not.
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Elsiebear90 · 05/08/2022 09:03
But how are Jamila Jamil and Demi Levato “non-binary”? They have always presented in a very stereotypically feminine way. People can just declare themselves “non-binary” which in reality means nothing, say they’re oppressed and start pontificated about issues which really don’t affect them and that’s the issue.
That’s not to say people who don’t fit into gender stereotypes (e.g. men who wear dresses and makeup etc) don’t face discrimination and issues, but I’m failing to see how Demi Levato and Jamila Jamil face any issues related to being LGBT+ when they are “gender conforming” and have exclusively (public) heterosexual relationships.
Hearach15 · 05/08/2022 00:01
"Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?"
No, non-binary people are very much part of the LGBTQ community.
GenuinelyCurious123 · 04/08/2022 19:52
For any LGBT+ people out there, how do you feel about celebrities such as Jameela Jamil or Demi Lovato claiming to be “queer” or non-binary?
Jameela Jamil is in a long-term relationship with a man.
Demi Lovato, as far as I know, is also in a heterosexual relationship and presents in a feminine way. She previously used they/them pronouns because she wasn’t sure which toilet to use - she didn’t feel male or female, you see - but now she feels more “feminine” again, she has gone back to she/her.
Please can someone explain: in what way are these women queer???
Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?
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Hearach15 · 05/08/2022 00:01
"Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?"
No, non-binary people are very much part of the LGBTQ community.
GenuinelyCurious123 · 04/08/2022 19:52
For any LGBT+ people out there, how do you feel about celebrities such as Jameela Jamil or Demi Lovato claiming to be “queer” or non-binary?
Jameela Jamil is in a long-term relationship with a man.
Demi Lovato, as far as I know, is also in a heterosexual relationship and presents in a feminine way. She previously used they/them pronouns because she wasn’t sure which toilet to use - she didn’t feel male or female, you see - but now she feels more “feminine” again, she has gone back to she/her.
Please can someone explain: in what way are these women queer???
Doesn’t it annoy actual gay or trans people when these non-entities try to jump on the bandwagon just to generate publicity for themselves?
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