@HazelCarbyFan
I agree - at first I thought people complaining about “Karen” were merely being dismissive of Black people addressing power dynamics, but after seeing discussions on here, I noticed how it was being used constantly for no reason completely devoid from any meaning. So I stopped using it. Can’t we do the same thing for mindlessly labeling things woke? It’s like neoliberal - it means something but there was a while when it was being applied to so much it became meaningless and became less useful to use as a result.
I do appreciate the dialogue on here. I posted in upset, which I think is fair, and was really annoyed, and some have been hostile, but others, even if disagreeing have been open. I do believe women can talk with each other!
I completely understand where you're coming from. I don't use the word "woke" in that particular way, precisely because it became a word associated with the BLM movement. I prefer either "identity politics" or "critical theories" as a collective word, but many people won't know what exactly that refers to.
I will say that with any word coined in the information age, life cycles are much shorter. The word "woke" didn't even get half a decade's worth of the most recent use before it was considered cool and widely adopted by all kinds of progressives around 2015, but it became especially associated with millenials. And that prompted the ridicule, and the way it is now used to dismiss identity politics.
The word "Karen" is similar in that respect. The subreddit which came out of that man hating on his (ex)wife Karen was in 2017, the subreddit blew up, the (general) Karen memes took off in 2018 and by 2020, Karen was being used to denote a white woman being racist, instead of "Permit Patty" or "BBQ Becky", some of the previous names for such women.
And I guess, because the name went viral to that extent, and it was found to be useful, there's a certain ownership felt in regard to the word by black civil rights activists.
And that feeling is fine in my view, even if we can argue about whether it's justified or not. Especially with memes like that it's the case that they change so quickly, and get used in often very different ways precisely because the internal-using meme-loving public feels they own the meme and can use it however they like.
I think it's important to consider that that's not appropriation, or any kind of -ism. That's the nature of the internet.
I do always want us to be able to have this kind of discourse though. Because otherwise we cannot really hope to understand each other. So I just wanted to say that I appreciate your comments.