[quote FlorenceNightshade]@Hardbackwriter you can’t disclose anything to a professional that poses harm or potential harm to a child and have your confidentiality maintained. That’s just a fact.
Most women understand and respect that when they are pregnant the child’s health and well-being is important too. It’s a balancing act that should, imo, put the child first at all times where possible.[/quote]
And that is why women in desperate situations will lie whether DV related, drug related, or otherwise... they will lie out of fear or embarrassment.
I asked my mother about her take (RN for 30+ yrs and medical claims attorney) and her take is that is a violation of the woman's human rights. We have HIPAA in the US which somewhat protects from this type of behavior - in most cases consent is required for info to be released.
The women who abuse substances while pregnant are more likely to lie to Dr. as they are likely lying to everyone else about their use. That is an addict's MO. I have known several addicts that had children. These women don't have their heads on straight because they are addicts and their MO was to show up at after hours parties or house parties while pregnant and after having their children and proceed to snort lines of coke/ecstasy/meth at times with their nursing baby in their lap and then proceed to breastfeed. They would lie right to your face that they were sober with a drink in their hand and enormous pupils due to whatever drug they were imbibing. I cut these people out of my life a long time ago due to the aforementioned as well as other transgressions.
I have a friend that went skydiving and diving (deep sea) multiple times without knowing she was pregnant for the first few months (abnormal cycle her entire life so no shock) - she volunteered the info to her OB/GYN (as well as the fact that she celebrated the activities with having several drinks each time) and they told her to never mention it again while pregnant as it would be viewed as intentionally poor prenatal behavior and could get her slated for CPS intervention. She received no support and was judged for her unacceptable behavior... her only reason to tell the Dr. was due to concern for the baby - she figured that if she hurt the fetus being the selfless person she is she would have aborted as she feared condemning a child to a poor quality health due to activity prior to knowing she was pregnant and received zero insight or guidance beyond 'keep your mouth shut if you want to keep your kid". Luckily all was great but there were some very lonely and hard weeks for her during her second and third trimesters.
The point is, those that engage in reckless behavior while knowingly pregnant are the most likely to lie about it. It would likely have negative impact on the truly honest that are doing everything they can to grow a healthy baby (in addition to being a violation of their right to privacy).