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Guardian interview with Juno Dawson

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RoyalCorgi · 11/05/2020 09:56

The Guardian is once more peddling male fantasies of what a teenage girl is:

www.theguardian.com/books/2020/may/11/juno-dawson-trans-alice-wonderland-interview-spice-girls

Dawson has written a novel based on Alice in Wonderland, but with a trans lead character:

'Wonderland is also a wake-up call to anyone who believes gender reassignment might be a happy-ever-after. Alice has recently returned to school after three months in hospital following a suicide attempt. “While I’m delighted with my perky little boobs,” she says, “I was profoundly disappointed that my urge to cut myself didn’t vanish with the first milligram of oestrogen to pass my lips.” Her problems, Dawson points out, are those of all too many young women. “When I’m at the Hay book festival or at Yale, these teenagers come into my signing queues and they are scarred. It must be talked about because it permanently affects girls.”'

Yes, teenage girls are really delighted with their perky little boobs, you misogynist little creep.

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ScapaFlo · 12/05/2020 17:52

The more I read the icker I feel

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R0wantrees · 12/05/2020 17:50

I just never did my puberty

Dawson taught Primary school year 6 & was a PSHE coordinator:

20/4/2018 inews interview by Rebecca Armstrong:
'Juno Dawson on sex education: 'Nobody had thought to tell these young people that sex was pleasurable'
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“I became a teacher straight out of university. I started my teacher training when I was 21 and I was in the classroom by the time I was 22. I went straight into a very professional role, which meant that I had to grow up quite quickly,”

Anyone who has read This Book is Gay (her non-fiction title about what it’s like to grow up as LGBT), or Being a Boy (everything you wanted to know about puberty, but were too afraid to Google) will know that Dawson is happy to tackle topics that many would shy away from when talking to children.

“As a teacher, one of my areas of speciality and interest was in PSHE (Personal, Social and Health Education). I became a PSHE co-ordinator, and during that first year I did some work with Brighton and Hove Council putting together a scheme of work for sex and relationships education. I taught Year Six of primary school – the last year before secondary school. That’s the year in which, at that particular school, sex education was taught.”

“By 10 and 11 years old, most children knew that you needed an egg and a sperm to naturally conceive a baby. However, nobody had thought to tell these young people that sex was pleasurable or that it could be making love, not necessarily sex. What they always asked, in different ways, was ‘Why do people have sex if they don’t want a baby?’ That unearthed a really fundamental issue with the way that we teach SRE (Sex and Relationships Education). We’re not really giving them the whole story.”

inews.co.uk/news/education/juno-dawson-young-adult-fiction-sex-education-300420

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Datun · 12/05/2020 17:38

I just never did my puberty. And as I transition I’m finally going to get to do the puberty I should have had.

Of course Dawson did their puberty, that's how they know they have an adult sexuality.

It's physically impossible for Dawson to have any other kind of puberty. Dawson will never develop a female reproductive system.

I suspect what Dawson means is the whole pyjama party, squealing at boys, Hollywood construct of 'girl puberty'. Not agonising period pains, fear of pregnancy, random and ill timed weight gain, unwanted attention from creepy men who are determined to attach your self-worth to your sexual allure.

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ScreamingBeans · 12/05/2020 17:35

Ah right, thanks.

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Singasonga · 12/05/2020 17:35

Our awareness of our female bodies is from the inside, as part of the mapped nervous system. Proprioception.

Such a good point. Becoming aware of yourself as a sexual object in the eyes of others is one of the trials of being a young teenager. My daughter got shouted at from a passing car walking home from school for the first time last autumn, and it upset her. Her mind is as far as it can be from "enjoying" the supposed power of being an object. She doesn't hate her developing body (thank God), but she does hate the way some people react to it.

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NiteFlights · 12/05/2020 17:33

‘I’ve never got out of the chrysalis’ - yes, mentally by the sound of it

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OldCrone · 12/05/2020 17:23

Dawson on puberty:

“I just never did my puberty. And as I transition I’m finally going to get to do the puberty I should have had. I’m obsessed with the idea of transformation –chrysalis periods – because I’ve never got out of the chrysalis.”

From here

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Datun · 12/05/2020 17:22

There was a quite hilarious thing on Twitter a year or so back, where women either quoted men writing about women, or made up their own.

Lots of alabaster breasts and one, memorable, 'when she spoke, she was unpleasantly audible'.

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Datun · 12/05/2020 17:20

"Perky little boobs" is such a fundamentally male way to view women's bodies,

Didn't D. Thomas also say something very similar in The telegraph? Or was it 'budding' breasts?

What's the obsession with pubescence?

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Dances · 12/05/2020 17:19

Where is the "breasted boobily" quite from?

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SirVixofVixHall · 12/05/2020 17:06

DanceLikeEmmaGoldman
Thanks so much for that list , really kind of you.
Scrimpshaw yes ! That is so true.

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Bananabixfloof · 12/05/2020 16:45

That is a piss take of course
The quote above? No its actually a written piece. In a news paper last year. Very real. Not even trying to be funny

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MonsteraCheeseplant · 12/05/2020 16:40

That is a piss take of course.

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T0tallyFuckedUpFamily · 12/05/2020 16:37

She breasted boobily to the stairs, and titted downwards

Oh my good Gaia! That’s so cringeworthy that it’s hilarious. I’m away to breast boobily down the stairs as I have to do some paperwork. I’m just wondering if I should stretch so my tits lift first? 🤔

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ScrimpshawTheSecond · 12/05/2020 16:16

Here is the full thing in all its glory:

“Cassandra woke up to the rays of the sun streaming through the slats on her blinds, cascading over her naked chest. She stretched, her breasts lifting with her arms as she greeted the sun. She rolled out of bed and put on a shirt, her nipples prominently showing through the thin fabric. She breasted boobily to the stairs, and titted downwards.”

Not sure of attribution, unfortunately.

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ScrimpshawTheSecond · 12/05/2020 16:12

Ha, I think that's it, Scapa! In my dim memory I'd recalled it as an actual excerpt. I expect there are plenty of examples of boobily breasting perkibobs surrounding us in literature - mentioning no names, of course.

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AbsintheFriends · 12/05/2020 16:04

Shedbuilder my friend went to an event where JD was appearing, with other authors (I wonder if it was the same one you went to?) Afterwards I asked if she'd enjoyed it and she enthused about some of the writers she'd heard, but said that one of them was just awful, and spoke in a really little girly voice and did lots of silly hair flicking and hand gesturing and just seemed completely out of place at an event focused on women's writing.

She had never heard of JD (and was sitting near the back) and it was only when I raised an eyebrow and said 'she?' that the penny dropped and the performance femininity made sense. Fwiw, she's quite a woke person and probably wouldn't have dreamed of criticising if she'd realised, but it was interesting that she detected the inauthenticity and the parading of regressive female stereotypes a mile off and reacted instinctively.

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ScapaFlo · 12/05/2020 15:47

"She breasted boobily to the stairs and titted downwards"? Is that the one?Grin

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JustTurtlesAllTheWayDown · 12/05/2020 15:39

The one girl I know who was overtly sexual at 16, was being raped by her father all through her teens. I think many girls who are highly sexual early, have experienced either abuse or have been given the impression that their worth lies in how attractive they are to males.

Oh yes, very much so. Girls being 'precocious sexually is massive red flag that there's something going on.
Also that bit about the book having a scene where the main character is raped by teen girls, I mean really?
There are no words for the incredible lack of understanding of teenage girl reality. None. Its bloody creepy. And that's putting a generous spin on it.

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ScrimpshawTheSecond · 12/05/2020 15:34

"Perky little boobs" is such a fundamentally male way to view women's bodies,

That's an interesting point.

For women breasts are an integrated part of our body, so on the whole we tend not to ascribe personalities to them. Our awareness of our female bodies is from the inside, as part of the mapped nervous system. Proprioception.

It would be a bit like calling our elbow 'boisterous' or something, just doesn't really make sense.

Men writing women do this a lot - gives the tell that the body part is being objectified, seen as not an essential, integral, integrated part of the body but a separate, separated part that is being fetishised. What was the wonderful description a man gave from a female pov of her breasts descending the staircase, unintentionally separate to the character?

A strong disconnect with embodied reality, says my obstreporous left nostril.

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OldCrone · 12/05/2020 15:15

"Perky little boobs" is such a fundamentally male way to view women's bodies, and so many males are unaware that that isn't how we see ourselves, and they get so belligerent when we point that out. Really kills the buzz, I guess.

But since the character who describes their breasts in this way is a boy who is taking oestrogen because he wants to be a girl, this may well be the way such a boy would view his breasts, and Dawson may well be speaking from experience here.

Perhaps Dawson is really trying to show us just how misogynistic the trans agenda is. And also, from Dawson's own derogatory comments about gay men in various interviews, as well as Dawson's insistence that Dawson's male partner is not gay, just how homophobic the trans agenda is as well.

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DancelikeEmmaGoldman · 12/05/2020 15:07

SirVix

Slightly off topic, but any suggestions for non-pornified, wonderful novels for dds 15, and just 13 ? Especially for the 15 year old?

Jessica Cocks and Heather Morgan’s duo Spoiled, and Messy are wonderfully funny and kind books about growing up and fitting in. They’d be fun for your your 15 year old. If she likes fantasy, Garth Nix’s Old Kingdom series. Joanna Baker’s Devastation Road is a wonderful YA mystery. Jane Gardam’s Bilgewater is a beautiful coming of age novel, it’s one of my favourite books. But there are lots of adult books which would suit a 15 year old, but which are not porny. If she likes mystery novels, Sue Grafton and Sara Paretsky are terrific. Laurie King’s Mary Russell and Sherlock Holmes series, or even the original Sherlock Holmes stories.

For your 13 year old. One of my favourite YA books is Libby Hathorn’s Thunderwith. If she likes fantasy, Tamora Pierce, Susan Cooper’s Over Sea, Under Stone books and anything by Diana Wynne Jones will get you good female characters and strong writing.

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Nimawyn · 12/05/2020 14:50

Was the intended audience not always small children, with a secondary audience of gay men?

That goes some way in explaining things... Halo

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