Hooves have you checked the NICE guidelines on accessing other areas healthcare facilities? That or asking your gp about what the procedure is would seem the obvious starting point.
I recall being told when I was pregnant that I had the right to access any hospital or midwife unit for care, prenatal or otherwise, despite being high risk. I know that for my adhd treatment I also could request to access facilities in other ccgs, and while this can be refused they do try to accommodate any genuine request from what I’ve seen/heard (waiting lists/funding dependant).
I have had awful (abusive- belittled, laughed at, birth plan thrown in my face, midwife using my back to push herself up on, not asking consent prior to exams-female midwife in labour, and one female midwife who did a sweep prior who basically said if the 1st 2 didn’t work then it was stupid to try a third- despite the gynae advise to do so, and then made it exceptionally painful and laughed that I’d never cope with labour when I was left crying afterwards) experiences with female and male hcp, and excellent ones. I also had hugely abusive experiences growing up. While I choose female hcp for things like smears, or request female chaperone during breast exam from male gp (and was told that’s standard practice even if I didn’t ask) I intentionally chose a male therapist when going for therapy for ptsd (privately, nhs had no options that would work for me). So I get sometimes preferring a male hcp, you have the right to request that regardless of if the nhs in your area can fulfil it. If they can’t then you have choices like going private as I did for therapy, or engaging further with nhs to see how they can meet your needs. Maybe they will suggest therapy to help with your experiences (and I was offered this when pregnant because of my past- it’s not an insult to be offered help to process trauma and hopefully over come some difficulties accessing care), or they can look into you travelling to another ccg, or nhs might pay a private facility (asc assessments where I am are currently being done this way due to waiting lists of 3yrs+) or they might suggest options like a male chaperone being present, or for smears gps can do them- I’ve had my female gp do mine several times despite it not being standard practice, just because I find accessing any health care very difficult due to being a full time carer for children with disabilities and she books me appointments with her when I’m at the appointment if that makes sense, which is way more accessible for me than trying to deal with the whole call at the start of the 2 week thing & we will try to find a time that fits my once a month 20mins slot I might be able to get to the gps at, or it might become something they may not be able to fix for you right there and then but that it’s kept in mind for future hires, or if several patients report the same need they may hire someone specifically to fill that need (using good old positive discrimination to advertise for a certain criteria). Either way whether they have male staff available doesn’t change your right to request this. You may be in the minority requesting this but women requesting female staff will be a significant number and if hcp know there is a need for more female practitioners then they can address that- as long as legally we are still allowed to request this, which is the point of the thread. We all have the right currently to request either sex hcp, that doesn’t mean the nhs can magic them up out of thin air when we ask, it means they have an obligation to listen and do what they reasonably can to meet this need.