Sorry, that came across as arsey, it wasn't meant to It didn't at all.
But if it helps I can rant on for pages about how you were literally violent and how you are causing me to suffer agonies because you silenced and excluded me.
According to SM, these idiots were smoking in the library, after having been invited in in the spirit of friendship, spilled wine on the books and the police were called. Apart from anything else, it's not very bloody Canadian.