I do think there is some logic to this "let the man manage money" though.
I mean it is completely horrific in the sense that if you apply it as a blanket rule across society that people with penises get direct access to money, people without only get access to money through association with people with penises - applied like that it is simply an abusers' charter (which is one very arguable view of what the family is, as an institution).
However, looked at another way: IF you marry a good, loving trustworthy spouse AND between you, you have children and / or other interest and commitments (like, who hasn't): there are at least two ways of managing the business of staying afloat as an economic unit:
1 - you share responsibilities. Both earn, both do housework, both do childcare, both volunteer, both have time for hobbies, both take care of aged parents, both are in good contact with the school, both do the household admin, both are potentially equally on the hook when the 6 year old gets sent home vomiting (and you know it will be the 4 year old the day after tomorrow).
How many families do you know who want to work like that (or the woman wants them to)?
How many really work like that?
2 - you split tasks down the middle. Person A does X block of tasks: Person B does Y block of tasks.
Both have privileges and responsibilities.
Both feel the full trust of their partner and this is part of what spurs them on to do these tasks sincerely and fully and to the best of their ability.
The tasks match their personalities and talents.
Both spouses appreciate that the other is an expert on what he / she is doing and enjoys the results of that expertise.
The material goods (and other resources, like leisure) of the household are shared equally, as both partners are recognised as equal forces in making their household's existence possible.
Now obviously among the problems of scenario 2 is that too often these conditions don't apply: giving the man direct access to money gives him (practically, though not ethically) full discretion as to whether he chooses to respect his wife or not. or materially manifest that respect.
this is an abomination. Under all religions that I know anything about, it is explicitly laid out in writing (though pretty much ignored in practice) that men should respect their wives according to the ground rules of scenario 2. Of course they don't because power corrupts and they've basically been given a choice as to whether to be shits or not. How surprising that some find the temptation to be a shit just too great to withstand. not.
Anyway. I can imagine - I am not arguing for this by the way - I can imagine a woman in a failing version of scenario 1, where the "split responsibilities" model is basically landing her with all the shit work on top of a WOH job, and there is resentment and tension in the marriage: I can imagine that woman thinking "what if I just trusted him SO MUCH that he was FORCED to step up and do ONE THING properly. Just one thing, that was done right - the money - if he really owned that, and did it completely, I could do everything else, and it wouldn't be too much, and I could stop being pissed off about every other thing that he barely half-arsedly does"
I can imagine her thinking that. But.... well, good luck to her
I mean there is something in it. You don't get good work out of people by not trusting them with it. Do you?
So...