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I have purchased my wedding dress, and it's fecking amazing!

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 16/01/2016 23:22

So excited! Put the deposit down on my wedding dress today and I love, love, love it Grin. Anyone want to see a pic or talk wedding dresses? Am especially excited because DP's parents have been arseholes lately and put a huge cloud over our wedding plans, so it's brilliant to get excited about it all again Grin

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 31/01/2016 22:45

Aw, thanks a mill All Grin. I'm hoping I'll look elegant, it doesn't really come naturally to me WinkGrin.

Thanks so much for the suggestion re the flowers. We're actually really lucky, our wedding planner is also a florist, so she is going to look after all the flowers for us, for a very reasonable price.

Hope you had a lovely time in France!

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Allalonenow · 26/01/2016 08:59

That's a fabulous frock Shadows.

I was staying in a French chateau recently, and in my room were the wedding photos of the owner's mother, wearing a dress very like yours. One photo was stunning, of her alone standing at the top of a flight of shallow stairs, threequarter turned and looking back at the camera, with the dress spread out and flowing down the stairs behind her ~ so elegant!

If you've not decided on your flowers yet, check out Marks and Spencer wedding flowers, they have a Calla Lily bouquet/buttonholes etc that would look perfect with your dress.

All the best! Thanks

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 21/01/2016 23:59

Thanks so much, Diamogs, Walking, and Potter. We're very organised so little left to do now but save and get excited WinkGrin. A couple of months ago I'd have added 'convince DP's parents to attend, but they have made it clear that that's a lost cause, so for DP's sake, onwards and upwards WineFlowers

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 21/01/2016 23:56

Oh, those shoes also come in purple, which would be amazing with your dress, though probably not what you're looking for.

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 21/01/2016 23:54

Flora, I love it! I'd actually been eyeing up those exact Irregular Choice shoes (they come in white, too, and I really love them), but they just wouldn't work with my dress. They will be amazing with yours though!

That length will be perfect on you. My sister often models at wedding fairs for the aforementioned family friend. She too is a shorty (5' 3''), and is often put in the tea length dresses, and they look amazing on her.

Your wedding sounds like it will be gorgeous, so lovely and peaceful and intimate. I'm getting excited for you Grin. You must come back with photos for us after the big day!

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Potterwolfie · 21/01/2016 08:29

It's absolutely beautiful, and if I was getting married again ( no plans, happily married!) I'd choose something just like it, it's so very elegant. Hope the rest of your plans come together and your wedding is amazing!

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Walkinglikeazombie · 21/01/2016 08:12

Stunning dress op, definitely prefer the one you picked out rather than the first choice dress!
It's just so elegant, and I'm sure it fits you perfectly considering your height/weight.
all the best to you and your DP, hope you have an amazing day!

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Diamogs · 21/01/2016 08:05

Beautiful dress op

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Florabella22 · 21/01/2016 07:43

Shadows yes the she's tea length although I'm a shorty at 5ft2 so it's kinda calf length! I have irregular choice shoes in mind but I have to decide on a colour. At the moment I'm drawn towards these lovely yellow ones!
We're heading off to a beautiful little country estate in the South West for a runaway wedding, just us two. It's second time round for both of us and we wanted it to be just about us. We're very excited and it's getting harder to keep it a secret as the time approaches!
I went for tea length as most of our photos will be taken in the grounds and I didn't want to hike a long train around with me!
Congratulations to you too Smile

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 21/01/2016 00:51

Thanks a mill, Blooming. I'm 5' 9" and size 10, so not exactly skinny, but definitely slim enough to wear the dress. Just want to tone up my arms and arse a bit Wink.

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Blooming69 · 20/01/2016 21:39

OP, your dress is utterly beautiful! are you thin? Have a fabulous day!

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 20/01/2016 21:36

Oh, and you must get a completely amazing pair of shoes to go with that dress, Flora Wink

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 20/01/2016 21:35

Congratulations, Flora! Is your dress tea length? It's absolutely beautiful, you must be thrilled! I love a tea length dress, though didn't feel that one was right for me. Yours is gorgeous! Do you feel amazing wearing her (I too refer to my frock as 'her' Grin).

How exciting that you're eloping Grin. When all our hassle with DP's parents started we considered this, but by then we'd already told extended family the wedding plans so it was too late to backtrack Wink. I'm a bit jealous, tbh!

Where are you planning on going?

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Florabella22 · 19/01/2016 22:08

Here's mine, I saw her at the national wedding show and when I looked on eBay there was one in my size. I'm so thrilled with it, we're eloping in June and I just can't wait!

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Pancakeflipper · 19/01/2016 09:45

The one you picked has a bigger 'wow' factor.

Chottie - did your daughter drag you round lots of shops?

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 19/01/2016 00:30

Pancake, this is the one I thought I wanted, and it's gorgeous, but just didn't look particularly special on me. So I tried on this, the actual dress, and two others. I'm a low maintenance bride WinkGrin

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 19/01/2016 00:24

Ooh, Chottie, how exciting! Is your DD delighted with her dress? July is no time away, it'll fly around now. Are you increadibly excited?

Thanks so much, Username and Salene. I'm not really very elegant Wink so tbh was utterly dreading dress shopping. We had great fun though. It's also so very comfortable!

Pancake, yes, there tends to be lots of wedding angst and misery on MN! I didn't try on many dresses - only went to one shop, the owner is a family friend and I knew I wanted to get my dress from her. She's amazing and has an incredible eye.

Tbh, what I originally thought I wanted was a million miles away from this. The first dress I tried on was the one I was convinced I wanted, and as beautiful as it was, when I put it on, I felt rather ambivalent about it. So the fabulous store owner encouraged me into a couple of different styles. Yes, the minute I put this one on I had that moment of 'ooh. I feel like a bride'. I felt amazing in it. It was definitely The One. My Mum and sisters said that I came floating out of the fitting room in it, standing all tall, and just grinning my face off. It was the first time that I could picture myself walking up the aisle to DH to be, and that made me tear up, and I just stood smiling at myself in mirror for about 10 minutes Blush. Next appointment will be to select accessories and style it, and the store owner already has some amazing ideas for that so I really can't wait Grin. Then bridesmaids dress shopping in the same place for gorgeous Two Birds dresses.

Secret, thanks! Will definitely post a wedding day photo. . You'll have to wait 9 months and 10 days for that Grin.

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SecretWitch · 18/01/2016 23:42

Lovely, lovely dress. Hope you will post a pic of you on your wedding day!

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Pancakeflipper · 18/01/2016 23:19

Ooh I love to see wedding dresses and happy brides (not many happy brides or guests on MN).

Now more details please. How many did you try on? Did you know you wanted this style or had your heart set on another style? Did you get a tingling feeling and knew it was the ONE ?

Congrats!!!

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Usernamegone · 18/01/2016 23:10

Your dress is so pretty!

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Salene · 17/01/2016 06:59

Very very elegant. I bet you will look amazing in it.

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Chottie · 17/01/2016 06:43

I love your dress too.

I went yesterday with DD and we finally found the dress yesterday. We've ordered it as DD is getting married in July this year so exciting :)

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 17/01/2016 00:15

Thanks a million, Chips

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ChipsandGuac · 17/01/2016 00:11

Very nice! Enjoy your big day!

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ShadowsCollideIsSurroundedByAd · 17/01/2016 00:11

Adventures, October of this year.

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