In laws have the kids some days while we work. Turned up yesterday evening to FIL drinking (strong alcohol with no mixer) and had a very odd conversation so unsure whether he had had more, or just that one.
AIBU to be really upset by this...are there any links I can share with him about possible social services involvement if reported or would that not be the case? Anything we can use as will likely play the victim and not take our worry seriously.
Youngest child was 2 and he was the only adult present.
Tia x
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To be very angry and upset at FIL drinking when arriving to collect kids?
mumofone1111 · 13/04/2024 17:26
ZekeZeke · 13/04/2024 17:36
Who looks after the child? I imagine the grandmother, not the grandfather?
Assume she is sober? Thereby quite capable of looking after the GC.
You cannot tell him what he can or cannot do in his own home. What you can do is find alternative childcare.
And your H needs to have this conversation not you.
Haydenn · 13/04/2024 17:46
Wouldn’t you just find alternative care rather than involve social services? If you don’t like the care they provide for your child go elsewhere 🤷🏻♀️
SantaBarbaraMonica · 13/04/2024 17:48
A drink is not a problem but it’s a bit weird he’s had one. A load of drinks is a problem. But if it’s a drink, or even two, and you don’t like it, then tell him. And if he doesn’t agree, get other childcare.
Youre being dramatic about SS.
mumofone1111 · 13/04/2024 17:52
I'm not going to involve them wanted him to realise it's not just us being over protective so was wondering if they would and maybe something we could show him.
Haydenn · 13/04/2024 17:46
Wouldn’t you just find alternative care rather than involve social services? If you don’t like the care they provide for your child go elsewhere 🤷🏻♀️
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