Hi all,
I've name changed because I've spoken to hundreds of people IRL about this. I was hoping for some Litter Tray wisdom and honesty (to balance the advice from friends /family who don't want to upset me).
Our lovely 1.5 year old ginger boy was found by our neighbour this morning with a broken leg. He must have been hit by a car. It was an horrific break - the bone was completely severed and poking out of the wound. The vet said he'd definitely have to amputate the leg but was fairly confident about the prognosis. The xray showed he'd broken his other hip, though, so it looked like we'd have to PTS.
We told the kids he 'hadn't made it' when we picked them up and then went to the vets to do the deed. When we got there, the vet suddenly seemed fairly positive that he could do something to the other hip (taking out the joint or something) so that he'd be OK - he'd be left with only one, slightly gammy back leg, he 'wouldn't be able to climb trees' but could live pretty happily. Vet couldn't be certain about outcome of operation obviously but was quite confident. He said he's certain he wouldn't be in pain once the initial convalescence was over - the question mark is over quality of life (again - he says if things go well, he's pretty sure he'll live well and long).
We don't have insurance but the extra element of the operation on the hip is likely to be about 500-1000 more than what we were expecting to pay just for the amputation (so 2500ish total).
So now we're in a total headfuck of a dilemma. I'm usually fairly pragmatic in situations like these but I suppose I've never had to make a decision like this about such a young and vivacious cat.
We've left him at the vets (he was very comfortable) because we couldn't make the decision either way (the vet encouraged this). We're genuinely quite traumatised by the roller-coaster we've been on today, and so upset so decision making was even harder. He's an absolutely wonderful cat and we all adore him. But we can't decide whether the risk is worth it or fair.
Brutally honest perspectives from Internet strangers encouraged!
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Terrible dilemma
RayWinstone · 26/03/2024 19:45
Autumn1990 · 26/03/2024 19:49
We had a cat that was hit by a car at a similar age. Hip joint was smashed up but they managed to pin it back together again. She died recently aged 11 of cancer. We choose to call a halt to treatment as it was returning.
I think though you could decide either way and both would be good decisions. Animals aren’t humans.
winnybella · 26/03/2024 19:54
I would definitely have the op. I had a three-legged cat and she had a long and happy life. I'm not sure why would you even consider PTS if the vet seems confident about the chance of success?
I'm definitely against keeping animals alive at all costs if it means low quality of life but that's not the case here, is it?
swooshes · 26/03/2024 20:03
Poor puss and poor you. If I'm reading it correctly, it wouldn't just be a case of a 3 legged cat, but one of those three legs wouldn't function properly? I think that would sway my opinion towards PTS to be honest, it really doesn't sound like the best quality of life. I am sorry you're in this awful position 💗
Halloumicheeseislife · 26/03/2024 20:21
Before making any decisions I'd want to know if he can still pee. Bladder paralysis is a common issue in cats with hip or pelvic fractures. Have they mentioned this at all?
swooshes · 26/03/2024 20:03
Poor puss and poor you. If I'm reading it correctly, it wouldn't just be a case of a 3 legged cat, but one of those three legs wouldn't function properly? I think that would sway my opinion towards PTS to be honest, it really doesn't sound like the best quality of life. I am sorry you're in this awful position 💗
Halloumicheeseislife · 26/03/2024 20:21
Before making any decisions I'd want to know if he can still pee. Bladder paralysis is a common issue in cats with hip or pelvic fractures. Have they mentioned this at all?
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