I live on a main road and our back door go out onto a garden. The neighbours a few doors down from us have recently acquired a kitten. They do not have access to the rear of the house like we do. They have 5 young children so have a lot on, and don’t have a cat flap. The kitten has been allowed to roam freely since about 12 weeks old. We were convinced the poor thing would be run over by now but he has realised that our garden is a fun place to hang out and it smart enough to a oidthe road.
The kitten is often locked out of his own house all day as they don’t have a cat flap. We found him curled up on our frosty trampoline several days in a row during the last cold snap so we’ve put a cat shelter at the bottom of the garden so he has a dry warm place to sleep when locked out. He’s in there every day now from 8am to 4pm.
So my issue: I reckon the kitten is around 20 weeks old now. He’s not been castrated yet. I don’t know if the neighbours have any intention of getting him done and the last thing I want is an uncastrated male cat hanging around.
Should he have had the op by now? And how do I approach this with the neighbours? They’re not exactly neighbourly people (there’s lots of drug dealers coming and going) but they’re not unpleasant either. I just don’t trust them to act in this cats best interests.
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MerryCheesemas · 20/12/2023 21:48
Gimmemoreherbivore · 20/12/2023 22:54
Please ignore @shewithnoname, you are doing the right thing looking out for this little fella. I agree a well-cared for cat does not need extra meals at neighbour's houses but chances are if they are chucking this poor boy out of the house for hours on end in December they’re not feeding him properly either. It’s boils my piss when people like your neighbours buy up a baby animal with no knowledge or intention of looking after them properly. You are really kind to provide a shelter for him. I’d contact cats protection for advice on approaching the subject of neutering. I think they offer a collection service to take the cat to the vet for neutering if the neighbour’s are amenable.
Jessforless · 20/12/2023 23:07
I kind of can’t believe this post. I have two cats who I am still nervous to let out after almost a year. People who let out a kitten that young give no fucks. Ignore the rude PP.
Are you in a position to rehome this cat?
shewithnoname · 20/12/2023 21:53
none of your business, its not your cat. if you dont want it in your garden do something about it!
you've put a cat shelter up... i'm assuming you are now also feeding him... i own cats and it boils my u know what when people feed other peoples cats.. leave them alone.
if you think they are being mistreated, report to the relevant authorities... but i can assure you cats are very hardy animals and you dont own them, they own you
MerryCheesemas · 21/12/2023 06:44
Thank you for all your responses. I would take him in in a heartbeat but our own cat is furious that this other one is hanging around in his territory. But I am a big softie and I cannot abide neglect of animals.
I may take him to the vet today for some advice. Will they neuter him without proof he’s mine?
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toastedcrumpetsrock · 21/12/2023 10:52
My vet prefers 6 months old to neuter, although I did keep him in until he was older - now he's 3 he spends almost all his time outside by choice (he has a cat flap) perhaps this kittens house is just to busy for his liking and he prefers it outdoors.
Suggestions to basically claim he is yours and get him neutered could get you in trouble with this type of neighbour who may well be planning on kittens to sell if they have/ get a female. Also it isn't your cat so stealing it by feeding and taking to the vets would be morally wrong even if you do have his best interests at heart - it isn't your cat and isn't a stray.
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