I was hoping for some wise words. My ten year old collie cross started to radically slow down and lose weight over the last few months. We're waiting on further sample results but the vet believes she has liver damage, possibly a tumour. She's still eating and occasionally finding enough energy to chase our cat or bark at the postman but she's mostly lying down wherever I happen to be. I'm heartbroken but resolved to be with her to the end. The vet says don't let her linger and the time has come to bring her in when she stops eating. I'm just wondering how others managed going through this. Thanks.
If you're worried about your pet's health, please speak to a vet or qualified professional.
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Stuckandinamess · 28/05/2022 20:53
Having had a similar experiences to you, I truly believe that you will just know when the time is right. We know our dogs so well, their every signal, mood and movement that it is almost like a sixth sense. It sounds crazy but both times, the light had gone out in their eyes- sorry if that sounds weird but it is true.
Until that day, enjoy your time together.x
Arcticlife · 27/05/2022 12:54
Lost two dogs within weeks of each other a couple of months ago. Really really tough. But I do feel strongly I owed them a peaceful and respectful death. I would rather that be a day too early than a day too late. Euthanasia is generally preferable to natural death, which could be stressful and painful. Have you considered asking the vet to come to your house so your dog has familiar surroundings? I was unable to do that for mine, but it is definitely something I'll consider for future pets.
RaininginDarling · 27/05/2022 17:25
I so understand this and you showed her love right when it counted. I think they know this.
annonymousse · 27/05/2022 13:11
I found the responsibility of the decision of when to call the vet so hard. I've always felt like I killed my beloved Labrador. However I still know it was the kindest thing. It is unfortunately part of being a responsible pet owner. She was so loved and she loved us with all of her heart and she had a lovely life and years down the line that is what I remember.
annonymousse · 27/05/2022 13:11
I found the responsibility of the decision of when to call the vet so hard. I've always felt like I killed my beloved Labrador. However I still know it was the kindest thing. It is unfortunately part of being a responsible pet owner. She was so loved and she loved us with all of her heart and she had a lovely life and years down the line that is what I remember.
RaininginDarling · 27/05/2022 12:37
Such good ideas, thanks for sharing and yes, she's getting plenty of human treats. She's just had a salmon filet and spent the next twenty minutes bouncing around the living room with her favourite squeaker. Its endearing and heartbreaking. But ultimately we're just grateful for the years of joy she's brought.
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