Will try to keep this brief and would be very grateful for any advice.
We have a border collie X rescue dog who has been with us for just under three weeks. She is very sweet and gentle with humans and pretty timid. At the rescue we saw her around other dogs and she was fine. She has encountered a few dogs since she has been with us (on the lead) and been fine.
The other day I was out walking her with my DC in a quiet country space when a large, obviously young, dog appeared out of nowhere and bounded over to us. My dog was on the lead as we had been advised by the rescue to keep her leashed for the first few weeks. This big dog was bouncing all over us, shoving up to my dog, coming up to her from behind and generally being ill mannered. There was no owner in sight. I firmly told the dog to go away which it eventually did but not before nipping my dog on a back leg. My dog yelped but didn't show any sign of aggression. The DC and I were quite shaken up by the encounter as I have no idea what I would have done if things had got even more out of hand.
Following that, about 10 days later, some friends of ours came over and unfortunately brought their dog with them without checking with us first (we would have said no as we are settling in a shy rescue dog).
Basically they arrived just as I had set off to walk my dog - I was about 10 metres up the track from my house when I saw them get out of their car with their huge dog (she weighs 60 kilos). The dog was on a lead but dragged the 13 year old daughter (who had no control or authority over the dog) to us where she promptly jumped up at me, practically trampled my 12 kilo collie, got right in my dog's space, had me tangled up in her lead, etc. My collie was really afraid and of course bared her teeth and tried to tell this dog to stop being so rude. I was trying to calmly ask the girl to get her dog the hell away and get it under some kind of control. The dog was not being aggressive but was basically trampling all over us. My collie lost control of herself and as her warnings had all been ignored by this boisterous dog, she snapped at the dog. She did a couple of those really loud air snaps that aren't a real attempt to bite but the final warning just before.
Our friends hauled their dog back into some kind of control and I took my dog inside the house in order to calm her down and reassure her. After a couple of hours of keeping the dogs separate we took them for an on lead walk together as I really didn't want my dog ending the encounter with such a negative experience. The dad had the big dog on lead and we kept the dogs a comfortable distance apart but were still walking together. My dog was wary of the other dog but as she felt safe there was no aggression. I feel pretty certain though that she would have been aggressive if they had been off lead and the other dog bounded up to her.
I'm so upset for my poor dog. On two occasions she has been minding her own business and really big dogs have totally invaded her space and really upset her. I can't help feeling worried that at this stage in her first few weeks with us that this could make her nervous of other dogs and consequently aggressive with them. I feel very annoyed with the owners in both cases but what's done is done and now I just want to proceed in the best way possible for my dog.
Thanks for reading this massive post and for any advice.
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Really annoyed with other dog owners letting their dogs harass my poor rescue dog.
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Can we pass some sort of law allowing us to whip owners who say ''just being friendly'' with a sturdy leather lead? Perhaps less 
for me, no? 
Gosh thank you so much for all your helpful posts. I'm sorry to hear of others who have experienced this sort of thing. I wish it were uncommon but I know that it is not. And I know it is all sizes of dogs, little uns and big uns - our experiences just happened to be with big ones!
I have let our rescue dog off the lead earlier than recommended by the rescue as for several reasons I felt it would be better for her confidence. Her recall has been extremely good so far, I'm really proud of her.
We went for a walk this morning and met a young medium sized dog behaving well on lead, its polite owner asked if we could let them say hello and all went well. That has done us good.
I am feeling a bit better about it all, I think a big part of why I felt so bad was because I felt that I had let my dog down by not protecting her from rude people and their badly trained dogs.
Such a minefield. Sorry for short impersonal reply to so many lovely posts, am on kindle. I am reading and appreciating everything, thanks lovely doghouse people 
Me too Owllady - first dog just after I turned 19, rescued GSD bitch that we found dying under a hedge.
I have a W Mids accent too!
What I was trying to say was that back then, dog walking was a much more relaxed affair, dogs tended to be 'naturally socialised' by frequent exposure on walks and there was less miscommunication between the dogs themselves.
I have seen a big shift in the numbers of undersocialised pet dogs with little or no basic training and poor communication skills over the years. I would maybe meet one or two every now and again back then, but now it's several on every walk - in certain places - I find I have to choose the location of my walks very carefully if I want to have a relaxed and enjoyable walk. It could be the area I live in though, so many people wanting working breeds and gundogs, but expecting them to need virtually no exercise, come ready trained, be non-shedding and able to stay on their own for endless hours every day while their owners are at work. 
That said, I was at a show (VW not dogs) yesterday and there were literally hundreds of on-lead dogs all getting along famously. In six or so hours there I didn't see one scuffle or snap. I did see a couple of 'yellow dogs' which were being respected and I was really pleased to see that. So, maybe my previous thought is right and it is the area I live in that just has an inordinate amount of numpties who really shouldn't have dogs.
Dita, I agree totally, but Ilovemydog did say that the Lab didn't actually approach the terriers as her owner was calling her back.
If the terriers are used to their owner screaming and waving a stick every time another dog appears they are never going to get any better and could potentially inflame the situation if the approaching dog took fright and attacked her, but I do accept her behaviour is probably the result of untold numbers of occasions where out of control dogs have actually approached and leaped on her dogs.
Actually, both dogs that trounced my pup in his first couple of days on-lead were juvenile black labs. I have nothing against labs, I know plenty that are absolutely gorgeous and very well trained, but in the area where I live there seems to be a disproportionate number of bolshy, untrained juveniles. As it happens, my boy was fostered in a house with several black labs and they were the one dog he was happy to approach before those incidents, now he panics if he sees one from miles away.
Owllady, I do tell people mine's a nervous rescue that had a bad start, but frequently there's no owner in sight when it happens to us either. The owner is still at the entrance to the park, right over the other side. They just unclip their dog's lead as they walk through the entrance and let them go. Very often they saunter up a very long time afterwards, having had a nice stroll along the winding path, rather than cut across to where their dog is clearly behaving like a hooligan and trot out the usual 'he just wants to play' or 'oh Fido you naughty boy - he always does that, he just loves everyone'. 
My older Lurcher also loves everyone - and every single dog we see, but I have spent a lot of time and effort teaching him he only gets to go and say hello to the ones I give him the permission for. Quite apart from it just being basic good manners, I don't want him bitten/injured from running up to the wrong dog. We went through a period last year, when our old dog passed on and we took on a new rescue pup, that his recall disintegrated, so he went back on the longline and we went back to basics with training until I felt he was reliable enough to go lead-free again.
I do think things have changed a lot. When I first had dogs almost too long ago to remember 
all the dogs in the park were off-lead and just mucked along together, sorting out their issues as they went. In the vast majority of cases the dogs rubbed along ok, with just the odd scuffle and no serious fights. They were well socialised from constantly mixing with a wide variety of breeds from a very young age.
A huge part of the problem is that so many dogs aren't socialised properly (imho just taking them to a short set of socialisation classes isn't enough, in fact some socialisation classes that are a free-for-all of large and small breeds all off lead creating havoc can make the situation worse) and never learn good manners. Add that to owners who have no intention of putting in the time and effort required to train a good recall and do their best to control their dogs until they have one - and it's a recipe for disaster.
Then there's the dogs that are cooped up without walks for the most part, then go completely fruit loop when they are finally taken out - by owners that have done very little training with them.
I always say I prefer walking my dogs in the rain, as then you tend to only get the more responsible dog owners, who walk their dogs come rain or shine ... now, if I could just persuade my wimpy Lurcher pup that rain is not actually the work of the devil, I'm pretty sure we could enjoy more hassle free walks.
These threads make me feel like an old hand as I have always said
Rescue
And people have backed off
Maybe it's my west Midlands accent 
You girls on here seem well clued up though, trust yourselves
Though beachcomber you had stray dog really as no owner in sight
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