anyone watching child in a million right now and think theres soo much more they can do for Jessica???

[melsy]

It does seem cruel to almost be shouting at her in the state shes in. Does she not need help to re adjust the pain message in her brain? The messages shes getting ar very similar to the ones that make us have panic attacks and anxiety. Theres so many complimentary things they could be doing alongside the "scientific" treatments ?????? Im really wound up sitting here .

[melsy]

oops expat we seem to be in tandem there with our posts.

Isnt it amazing the emotions we get in touch with as mums. So powerful.

[expatinscotland]

That picture of him! With his smile.

Oh, how his brothers must have been so sad, too.

[melsy]

His poor mum will have been soo stricken. Want he adorable, makes me want go get dd2 out of her cot & dd1 out of bed and hold them really tight. Gawwddd I really sobbed there , like nearly hyperventialting sobs . My ptsd (3yrs ago now)was based on the fear of dd1 dying or me.

[expatinscotland]

How can that be true when blocking the pain by knocking her out did?

OMG, I want to go into my 15-month-old's cot and take her out and cuddle her!

But it would wake her up and piss her off.

[melsy]

see shudnt have wached that , thats made me choke uo really badly. . That darling baby. Making me sob .

Glad for Jessicas progreess , feel like I want to shout into the screen though.

[lisad123]

sobbing now, seen baby Josh died at 6 months

I meant it wasnt physical pain as in broken bones, cuts ect. It the brain telling her it hurt, not pain telling brain like normal.
They did say that there is no use giving painkillers because they dont work.

Lisa

[expatinscotland]

Oh, no!

The baby died!

I'm sobbing.

That photo of him, cheesing, with those blue eyes.

My heart is breaking for them!

Poor family!

[BigCremeEggs]

poor baby never made it

[expatinscotland]

This girl is beautiful. What a lovely lass! I hope some modelling scouts are watching - she's a tall one!

I just don't see why she should have just been made to suffer without even trying some alternatives to help her cope and still stay in touch with her body.

[melsy]

"Not being boastful" lol

[melsy]

wow expat so like me this is quite close to the bone as they say. Ive also had a combination of hypnotherapy , EFT , EMDR (trips to A&E ) and acutpunture for other ailments. I also meditate and do very very gentle pilates every evening. Therapies HAVE to be dynamic as theres always a combinatin of factors in pain and mind control issues.

[expatinscotland]

Aw, what a precious baby!

He's gorgeous!

[expatinscotland]

Imagine being constantly told by your consultant that it's bascially all in your head?!

[BigCremeEggs]

aww poor kid

[expatinscotland]

I've had four knee surgeries, my world-class surgeon, a Frenchman who worked on Olympic skiers, strongly believed in helping with pain in the weeks immediately following surgery. In his opinion, there was no point in his operating if the patient's brain was so busy focusing on the pain they couldn't work with their physio to maximum effect.

I also had accupuncture and worked with a yogi on breathing techniques.

[melsy]

aghhhhhh see this is why i cant watch these progarmmes , that baby . Im getting cold shivers.

[melsy]

just read your message about pain killers expat, I agree , Im having physio for very painful spd and sacral displacement from my pregnancy with dd2 7mths ago , right now. The 1st 2 weeks I was told to take nurofen every day every 4hrs. The idea being that if the inflammation goes down and the pain messages calm then I will feel as if IM recovering more and it will perpetuate further recovery.

[expatinscotland]

'Theyre making her feel bad for having these thoughts , and guilt will not help pain messages either.'

Exactly, melsy! Fighting the body in cases like this is stupid, because the body doesn't lie.

This shouty strategy teaches a young woman not to trust what her body tells her, to ignore its signals and signs.

Very bad.

We all know as women how important it is to be in touch with your body.

[expatinscotland]

It is physical pain, lisa. That's just it.

It's not psychological.

[melsy]

yerr expat that it , right there right then bring someone in alongside what they are doing, results will be faster. EFT would be amazing for this, Theyre making her feel bad for having these thoughts , and guilt will not help pain messages either. there is NO excuse in this day and age to be ignorant or unwilling of using complimantary things. (of course its all cost but hey, never mind let children suffer ).

[OrvilleRedenbacher]

who is cryign and why

[lisad123]

Surely theres some way they can block pain signs to brain!! TENS!!
I know its not physical pain but my god poor child

L

[melsy]

They need to understand why it happened in the 1st place and why shes got this really strong pain message. There needs to be a more holistic approach , as this is so much more than the pain.

GRRRRRRR she just seems to have very limited knowledge for someone in her position.

You dont shout at somoene to be calm and relaxed either , fgs .

I should turn over , I always get in a right state watching these things. Although I better than I was. I woud be shaking and having an attack too right now.

[expatinscotland]

'You need to control your breathing'.

Um, she needs help, not someone shouting at her!

I agree, melsy, some accupuncture, some hypnotherapy, yoga breathing techniques, etc.

There is NO reason for this girl to suffer like this!

[OrvilleRedenbacher]

why is she screamign and why