DD1 is 13 and is in a small group of friends. A friend which she has known from 2yrs old, a friend since she has known since 7yrs old a specific all consuming hobby. In yr7 they all started at the same school together, now in yr8 my DD and is finding it really hard - she is universally well liked but struggles to form deeper friendships beyond the classroom - the two old friends seem to prefer each other, resulting in some pretty rubbish behaviour from them at DD’s birthday. We’ve just had 2.5week Easter break with her seeing no one face to face despite my efforts to organise stuff.
She says she wants to move schools, that it’s not worth the money we pay, and she’d have a better time / fresh start elsewhere. She does have a tendency to be negative and dwell on things. I’ve suggested we connect with other people who do her hobby, but am always met with resistance - she doesn’t feel well equipped socially to take friendships to the next level.
How do I help? Should I help? It’s such a stark contrast to DD2 who will make friends with anyone - as with all these things it heartbreaking to watch. It seems there is a pecking order, leaving out situation constantly in play that is just tiresome. Anyone have a similar experience?
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boodlesandpoodles · 15/04/2024 13:45
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