Hi...i thought i was the only one going through this...i am totally near the point of giving up yet im ll he's got. My son has been 'less than lovely' for the past 5 years..he's now nearly 16 and his agression towards me and my partner is unbearable. His attendance at schooled averaged 70%...i had constant telephone calls from school...making me feel inadequate as a parent. My son is big..prop forward..im tiny...believe me..when i was on my own i couldnt force him out of bed. He'd square up to me..frighten me...almost ruled the house...but i let him do it and get away with it. 2 years ago i fell in love...been single for 3 so about time...i thought someone by my side...working together... my son would show some respect. How wrong could i be...its got so much worse..he was expelled from school and now is 'home schooled'...although he's never out of bed until 3pmish every day..later at weekends. Today was the worst...he doesnt get on with my partner and when they're home together i get constant txs and phonecalls about rows they'ved had...piggy in the middle and its started to effect my job. My partner maintains my son shold be up at 11am and doing his planned school work...which i agree with...my son sleeps through alarm...a small riot erupts. This isnt the first time but i really am at the point of giving up...he's scarey when he's abusive...he wishes my partner dead...he's told me to choose between them...he swears and shouts at him..telling him where to go but not that politely. Ive been outside my house before too scared to go in as my partners on nights and me and my son have had a row about him sleeping until 4 , doing absoutely nothing in the house (which i know is 'normal' for a teenager) and the total lack of respect for me, my partner, his sister and his nan and he's so angry at me all the time. He had all he wishes for..macbook...3 screen mac thing (!)...i phone..you name it he's got it but it never seems enough. Think i'll shut up now...but any advice or anyone going through the same please get in touch x thank you x
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Templar24 · 13/07/2015 21:32
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