My husband of 35 years this year has done cocaine and although he said he wouldn't take it again, he lied after I put a kids Tracker on his phone…he apologised and found our about the tracker and we got over this, he also lied when he stayed at the pub drinking all night. My adult kids were upset and he promised them too he would never do this again. Now he's being really secretive with his phone and I've just found a load of porn sites on the home iPad Different dates and times)…it's the same person and they have an only fans account…he's very secretive about money and has recently used Viagra which has helped our sex life…but these have also gone missing.. which he hasn't used on me. My daughter is pregnant after miscarriages and my son's relationship has broken down so I don't want to stress my children out…we have a holiday booked next week…do I leave it and just see if it continues…or confront him…I'm absolutely gutted and this year has been the worse year of my life but the constant lying is getting me down..is this a middle life crisis he's going through?
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