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Can a middle aged woman wear these?

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SpottyShoeBow · 17/02/2020 20:55

What say you?

Can a middle aged woman wear these?
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JollyGiraffe12 · 12/03/2020 17:03

I don’t like them but I don’t think your age should have anything to do with your choice in footwear. If you like them, wear them!

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GinAndNightnurse · 12/03/2020 12:24

Not unless you want to look like Minnie Mouse, no.

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TheReluctantCountess · 12/03/2020 12:20

Yes, they are great!

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AdoptedBumpkin · 12/03/2020 12:20

Kudos to you for going for it.

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EngagedAgain · 21/02/2020 07:02

I always notice people's shoes, but mostly it's because where women are concerned, I am looking for ideas. The other thing is I can't abide is dirty, scruffy shoes, especially leather ones that look like they are crying out for polish, and if the wearer is otherwise smart, like they think it doesn't matter about the shoes. In fact at one time it would have been a deal breaker!

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Haggisfish · 20/02/2020 22:58

No the Velcro on dr martens is superior, it really is!

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DownToTheSeaAgain · 20/02/2020 22:19

Wear. What. You.Want.

It is a free country.

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SmellyBeard · 20/02/2020 22:14

But the fastening is velcro. Won't it go all curly and crap?

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MrsDoylesTeaBags · 20/02/2020 20:24

There's a reason they're in the clearance sale

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Mummiepig · 20/02/2020 20:21

Do they fit?
Do you like them?
Are you comfortable in them?
If you answered yes, then you can wear them

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okiedokieme · 20/02/2020 20:21

I would wear them without the bow in black or red. I'm middle aged

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Bluewavescrashing · 20/02/2020 20:19

I want them! But they are kids shoes so can't.

Yes you can! Why not? Most of my shoes are from the children's section--much cheaper as you don't pay VAT. Some are ditsy and cute, others look like 'normal' shoes eg trainers and boots. It's a nice perk if you have small feet!

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SpottyShoeBow · 20/02/2020 19:37

I did remove the whimsical bow, but only because it was pouring rain and I didn't want to ruin it. If its dry tomorrow it will be back on!

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itsbetterthanabox · 20/02/2020 18:49

I want them!
But they are kids shoes so can't.

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Clackyheels · 20/02/2020 18:44

Haha, good hopefully they made you smile and enjoy your day a little more. If you like them wear them.

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TheNavigator · 20/02/2020 18:26

Well I wore them today.

Did you remove the whimsical bow?

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Iamthewombat · 20/02/2020 18:24

(I wouldn’t really, but I would very much like to know the reasons of each individual hideous shoe-wearer)

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Iamthewombat · 20/02/2020 18:22

You should reserve the right to wear what you like and I will reserve my right to think, “My eyes! My eyes!”

Actually I often have bad thoughts about other people’s footwear. I only think the thoughts, though. Do I comply with the ‘be kind’ directive? When I retire and no longer have to do a morning commute (current estimate puts this at age 70 so not any time soon!), on my last morning I will ask each and every one of the women on the platform who habitually wear shoes I consider to be hideous, “why would you make your own feet and legs look so ugly WHY WHY WHY????”

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Lordfrontpaw · 20/02/2020 17:06

I bet at at least one person compliments you on them

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SpottyShoeBow · 20/02/2020 17:03

Well I wore them today. I can confirm that the sun is still shining, the stars have not fallen from the sky, civilization has not collapsed and I did not leave a trail of traumatised members of the public strewn atop the pavements, frothing at the mouth in my wake.

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Bluewavescrashing · 20/02/2020 14:37

They are horrendous. You can wear them if you're a children's TV presenter dressed as a clown. Otherwise fuck no.

I'm an infant school teacher so not far off the mark 🙂 the children love funky shoes!

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Bluewavescrashing · 20/02/2020 14:35

Thank you @SecretWitch! I'll probably wear them with pinafores and long sleeve tees. Or skirts.

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SecretWitch · 20/02/2020 14:32

@Bluewavescrashing, those look fab on you❤️

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namechange8765455 · 19/02/2020 23:22

Oh em gee, I love these shoes. Where did you get them from?

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LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 19/02/2020 23:16

Not my taste but I'm from the wear what you want camp. I do like DM boots but they don't suit me unfortunately. You need to have a whole 'look'.

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