Hi all,
Dp exw is just toxic . She uses the dsc to reflect her feelings of dp ( she left him years before we met ) any time she is unhappy with dp ( usually when she doesn't have a boyfriend ) or most recently because their shared home is due to go up for sale as agreed by them both five years ago in a court order and she can't afford to buy him out. She then tells the girls everything . Everything! From her point of view About how their dad is 'kicking them out on to the street' is lying to them, etc etc . They are 8 and 12 and sadly can come across very spoilt and entitled as exw has influenced them as such . They have a great time with us but half an hour before going back to mum they withdraw earphones in , 'I feel sick 'etc etc or if we discipline they phone mum and say they're unhappy and mum withdraws access etc so they know what keeps mum on side and when they get back to mum its we were bored , we don't want to go again which fits in with exw critical view of dp. We have all been to family therapy the therapist has told us exw has brainwashed them but she's so intimidating and defended honestly I think the therapist is out of her depth... I've read a few threads where people seem to have been through similar .... Suppose I just wanted some support or stories of how this stuff can turn out . We are now going for court ordered access but are mindful she coaches the kids just like she did in therapy and the therapist said they are trained to agree with and protect mum. Just .... Help?!
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wowis · 10/12/2015 20:52
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