Hi, SS is fibbing a fair bit. Not horrid lies but it seems quite a number. I sense he does it once, maybe because he thinks its clever or he can't be bothered to think about the question or he is challenging us, and then of course he is stuck with it. This week he told us the same lie six times, on different days, to us separately and together, we thought he was telling the truth, then it all came out today and it wasn't a big issue but it was six separate occasions of lying and we feel cross. We weren't nagging, it was whether some info had come out of school so we just kept saying 'any news'. It had, he had already told school he didn't want to do the activity but SS told us no info had come, he didn;t know anything blah blah blah. It was info we needed but we all know it is his choice so it wasn't his way of getting out of it - he knew he had free choice anyway. But we needed the info to plan what was happening on one of the weekdays looking forward.
I don't know what to do! DP is really strict on lying and says it undermines trust. It really is undermining trust as I don't know when he is giving me the runaround.
What would you advise my DP (his dad) does - ton of bricks or blind eye or somewhere in the middle?
To make it worse he then told us three different reasons why he didn't tell us, so he lied again during the conversation about why he lied.
I need a lie.....down!
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Lying - anyone any advice for me?
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chelen · 18/01/2012 19:37
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