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I have an Aspergers 16 year old son - dx at 15yrs.
He is bright - got his gcses despite v. low attendance at school.
Now at sixth form college, 8 weeks in and his attendance is already as low as 50%. Only difference between school and college is that he likes going to college and the atmosphere there. He just can't walk into the classrooms.
Anxiety and paranoia are the issues. We've had no help since his dx. Children Mental Health services in meltdown. They signed him off at sixteen with a good luck letter and a list of important numbers including The Samaritans.
I am saying to DS - lets leave it a year. Get used to dx, Get a job or do voluntary work. Get some help with anxiety - meds or counselling.
DS wants to stay, even though he is doing very little studying.
Meanwhile college calling us in for emergancy meeting next week.
Any advice welcome
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Motherhoodismytrade · 23/10/2014 13:51
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