Hi, I'm very new to this but desperate.
My 14 dd has recently been diagnosed privately with Aspergers. Long story but because she is so bright her primary school and GP wouldn't help when she was younger and it was only after she beat me up anyone listened.
The biggest problem I have at the moment is she lies. They can be such stupid, blatent lies that are so easily found I can't beleive she keeps doing it!
Her reasoning is that if she lies and gets away with it I wont be angry.
I explain that lying makes things worse to the point I dont believe a word she says but she still continues to do it.
She has a totally blank face and monotone voice when telling me this and doesn't seem bothered about lying, only bothered about me being angry for whatever it is she has done.
I'm also a bit scared of her now, so really confronting her is a bit of a scary option.
My younger dd, who hasn't any ASD totally gets what I am saying so it's not as though I'm explaining myself badly.
As anyone else with a child with Aspergers come across this, or is she just a horrible, pain in the neck teenager?
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
SN children
Is daughters lying because she has AS or just cos she's a teenager?
TTkeepsmesane · 18/06/2009 10:08
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