After my supermarket gem I thought I would share the next episode of people's comments with you....
Had a physio and ot visit our playgroup last week. The Physio obviously is not one for winning friends. Her first interaction with me consisted of the following -
'who owns that bum shuffling child?' To which I proudly said - she would be mine. I then got a lecture about the importance of crawling (as in hands and knees etc - a good five minutes) i tried to tell her that dd1 does crawl a lot at home where it is nice carpet but not really on horrid concrete.....
Second comment - 'do you always encourage her to sit like that?' ( as in the wrong way!!) to which I replied dd1 does not need encouragement to do anything - she just does it......Thought the way dd1 was sitting was good as she had a stable base etc.....
SHe also said she thought dd1 would not have very good trunk rotation doing the bum shuffling and reaching that way.... another mum came to my resuce and pointed out if she watched dd1 she would see that dd1 had very good trunk rotation.
I finally took a breath and explained to the physio that considering dd1 had only had 6 sessions of physio - equalling about 3 hours in total and that six months ago she was just commando crawling... I thought she had made great progress..
then if that wasn't enough and I wasn't feeling like the crappest mum around... she starts on dd2 and wanting to know if I am giving dd2 tummy time - not really she hates being on her stomach.... makes her scream her head off... I persevere for a few seconds and then put her on her back or recline her in a position she likes. After I told her this she again lectured me on the importance of dd2 having tummy time or she will end up with delayed development at 6 months and no real shoulder strength.
Wow - pick on me - yes I am a Baaaaaddddddddd mother poor dd2 being dragged everywhere for dd1's things.... she will end up delayed as well after spending what seems like forever sleeping in a pram or a car......
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eidsvold · 28/02/2005 04:06
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