I have just realsied that one of the effects of DS2's problems is that I struggle to maintain relationships.
I seem to only be able to cope with a few things at any one time and, once term starts I find myself hiding from people to avoid coffees etc as I get quite panicky.
I have a very few close friends who I see regularly but beyond that I struggle.
I am always polite to people and I am very very grateful that people want to spend time with me. I feel really crappy about myself that I end up avoiding social situations.
I don't think I was like this before DS2 and I think it is just that I am often right onthe edge of being overwhelmed in most areas.
But whilst I am keep my family and close friends going , everything else gets lost inthe mix as soon as I have a bad day.
Is anyone else like this?
I think I worry about it because my DCs are already a bit 'different' because oftheir brother and I just can't do the school fetes/PTA/mums coffeees that everyone else does.
DS1 seems to have managed fine but I wish I could make more effort for DD.
Anyone had this and come out the other side.
Or am I just a miserable cow
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Just had a lightbulb moment. Does anyone else struggle with this...
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pagwatch · 03/09/2008 08:45
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