Our 11yr old is likely to be diagnosed soon. At this stage autism hasn’t been mentioned to them by us or anyone else. So far It has been framed as talking to professionals to try to find out why they struggle with certain things ( can be anxious and have sensory reactions). Child is female, very bright and high achieving, school have no concerns as she does everything she needs to there and appears to have friends etc. so is likely super high masking. Child has said before that they don’t feel different to their friends. Child has never said they feel different to others and generally has lots of same interests of kids her age, so this may all come as a surprise to her. Obviously we don’t want to say she has autism until we know for sure, but she needs to do the ADOS assessment soon so we do need to talk about that. Any advice?
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arinya · 15/04/2024 12:59
Our 11yr old is likely to be diagnosed soon. At this stage autism hasn’t been mentioned to them by us or anyone else. So far It has been framed as talking to professionals to try to find out why they struggle with certain things ( can be anxious and have sensory reactions). Child is female, very bright and high achieving, school have no concerns as she does everything she needs to there and appears to have friends etc. so is likely super high masking. Child has said before that they don’t feel different to their friends. Child has never said they feel different to others and generally has lots of same interests of kids her age, so this may all come as a surprise to her. Obviously we don’t want to say she has autism until we know for sure, but she needs to do the ADOS assessment soon so we do need to talk about that. Any advice?
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