Hi everyone,
Just wanting some opinions/ experiences please, particularly from parents of ASD children :-)
My DD is 3.2, and is currently on the pathway for ASD. Her main traits are severe speech delay (very limited speech - the odd word) and limited understanding of language, and sensory stuff (she’s v sensory seeking). Socially she’s okay-ish.
She is the cutest, smiliest little girl and the absolute centre of my world! I’m finding this whole thing really really hard, as is my partner.
Anyway, what I’m struggling with is this: Will she ever talk? Will I ever have a conversation with her? I’d LOVE to know what’s going on in her mind.
I know no-one can tell me conclusively, but, I’d love to hear from parents of ASD children who had speech delay at 3, to see how they are getting on now, particularly with speech. Are they still non- verbal? Or are they now speaking at a typical level? Or somewhere in between?
Where we are so far: She says the odd word meaningfully: e.g. milk, outside, dada, bye bye, peppa, night night. And that has improved slowly in the last 6 months. Apart from that, it’s either babble (pretty constant and really super cute), or repeating phrases out of context (e.g. bye bye when no one is leaving). We have a private SALT (since she’s been 2.7) who has been brilliant - she first helped us improve her attention and listening, and recently has been helping us teach her PECS. DD has picked PECS up really well, still only on stage 1 but only been doing it for 2/3 weeks and it just seems to have clicked, both at home and in nursery. And whilst she doesn’t point, she’s really coming on with other non-verbal cues, e.g, putting our hand on her empty cup when she wants a drink.
For parents in a similar situation when their children were 3, how is their language now? I’m hoping and praying that one day I can have a conversation with her, honestly if and when that happens I’ll seriously feel like I’ve won the flipping lottery :-) x
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Will my little girl ever talk? (Likely ASD)
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Sunny4124 · 02/06/2019 15:55
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