Hi all.
Just wanted to put some thoughts down on paper (so to speak!). Its that same old bannana of which school is the best for my ds1. He is five and has cp. He is non verbal and uses a communication aid. He can walk although is a bit wobbly. He can only use one arm and hand. His biggest disability I believe is his inability to communicate and express himself confidently in a normal 'talking' world. Appart from all that boring stuff he is a lovely, bright, intelligent,social, sensitive, funny, cheeky little five year old. He is currently 2 days at ms and 3 at sn. I can tell when dressing him through the week, which uniform brings a bigger smile to his face and currently it his ms one, so from this I have come to the conclusion that he prefers ms school.
My ongoing problem is trying to imagine what is the best schooling situation for him in a couple of years time and onwards after that. I say a couple of years time because from what I have read, and from other sn peoples experiences at school, it seems that from the age of 7 or 8 onwards, this is the time when the 'social boundaries' seem to dictate who plays with who and who is not cool .
I am just so changeable in my opinion of where ds goes longterm. Who are we to say that putting a sn child in a ms environment is the right thing to do? By doing this, surely are we not just exagerating the many problems and struggles a sn child has anyway?
Ds's speech therapist came round today and we were talking about this very subject. We were talking about the secondary (ms) school that my ds would go to (if we thought that was the right road for him). I mentioned to her that there was a disabled lad who used a wheelchair and a communication aid there and he was getting along fine. Or so i thought when she then informed me that 'oh yes, xxxxx got excluded because he ran his wheelchair into another pupil .
Do ms schools really understand and are fully equiped and able to accommodate sn kids and the daily frustrations they have???
That is the question that is eating away at me and worrying me to death.
Your thoughts (again!!) would be greatly appreciated.....
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magsi · 12/03/2007 14:34
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